If you just want an idea of market value, ask a local REA to do an appraisal. Be up front with them and tell them you're not selling. If they're still happy to do it you MAY have yourself a good agent who is looking at the big picture and is there for the long term. I often give appraisals for people in that situation and look at it as an opportunity to build a relationship.
If you want to draw down equity you'll need a registered valuer. That will cost maybe $200 - $300 and is usually arranged by your bank.
Well done!! That's 3/4 more than I've been able to get my better half to read.
After reading a few more responses, I think its just a matter of time and growing into the debt, one loan at a time. I think as the equity increases her confidence will also increase.
As some have read in a recent post, we bought a block of flats (or as Geoff says, a flock of bats
) a couple of months ago and we have a debt of around 370k. Today we've made an offer on another property ( and I'm anxiously sitting here waiting for the damn agent to call, lol) and wifey is ok with it.
Something that i thought of that will help is to write a manual explaining what to do if something happens to me. eg, with life insurance money, invest it here, payments will come out and go there etc. Contents insurance is with XYZ, landlords insurance is with ZYX, shares are sold here etc etc.
So I guess I should start....
Cheers