I still have a malaysian passport
yes. malaysia is very cheap but i don't think I could go back there to live. actually not everthing is cheaper than oz. cars are more expensive as with baby stuff and toys!
but maids and nannies are very cheap. it's about 150AUD per mth for a fulltime live in maid/nanny. you can have a freshly blended juice in 5 mins, you room cleaned and bed made, clothes all hand washed, etc even car wash there is only $3 and it's as good as being detailed. It would be nice to have a nanny is on a beck and call for josh 24/7 but gosh, he would turn out a right little king! it's also cheaper to eat out than cook yourself. Supermarkets there are rubbish and for best quality prdocue, meats, fish etc you need to get to the markets/wet markets very early (could get the maid to do that though!).
I believe the standard of living is much higher in Oz even if you were multi millionaire in Malaysia. Also, all the people there are actually trying to get out of the country with the government being very pro muslim and policies unfair. Although better than other muslim countries, the govenrment is still very corrupted. Government contracts are only given to Malay companies etc
I would choose option 2. The reason why I am on this road is so that I can afford to travel often...I love travelling which is why I don't even want a full time job so that I can travel if I want to. The other reason being that I can't imagine retiring in 10 yrs time, I'd be only 38y.o and life would be so boring. I don't mind working until I die if it's property related coz this is where my passion lies. I've also recently discovered a fascination with history, especially asian history so maybe might go back to Uni. However, what job can I get out of a course like that?
But I agree with Lizzie, that it's important to maintain a balance. I don't care to drive a $50k+ car, designer clothes, a 6 br mansion by the river etc I don't mind spending on memorable holidays, things good for the health i.e expensive gerbs, ginseng, birds nest or golf clubs etc