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    I don't know what to think.

    when dealing with people in crisis things definitely dont go smoothly. thats part of being a supportive loving caring person. dont do more than you feel you can , but if you can find it in your heart and life to be more flexible while she is in crisis, it will be a very special act of...
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    I don't know what to think.

    I would suggest if you think you can cope with it, that you keep the bed for a couple of months and let her sort herself out. things change alot in the first months after a crisis. allow her that time. thats what happens in crisis. if you tried to be nice then be nice, give her time, dont be a...
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    I don't know what to think.

    yes it is polite, and i find these days many families really stress manners alot. but in crisis sometimes theres more to it, as Wylie and i have tried to explain, people dont function the same, they may be hardly functioning, not know what to say, embarrassed, full of emotion, trying to do 10...
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    I don't know what to think.

    i would gently ask her how she is going and what happened in a non threatening way . Its the only way to really know. I have seen too often when people are genuinely in high stress and not coping well, not able to communicate well and aswell accused of being manipulative, when in fact...
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    I don't know what to think.

    Thanks Wylie, i wish you all the best with whatever is going on now fo ryou and your family. Francine
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    I don't know what to think.

    i would say 3 things here firstly good on you for doing your best i'd say be open give her space to work things out over the next weeks. dont put more pressure on her she's already in crisis enough. secondly i have cared for teens that for whatever reason had run away from home. My kids...
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