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Geoff, in all seriousness, how do you reconcile my saying that in a marriage, the mother should be the primary caregiver, since mothers are naturally the better parent in cohabitation to me saying that mothers should automatically get custody in divorce? You know they are two different...

So if a mother is physically/emotionally/sexually abusive, she should get custody? You know very well that I was talking in context of marriage. When the parents divorce, as I have stated several times, the children have the right to equal access to both parents. In some situations, the mother...

Hi Fifth, you are correct. Thinking about this last night, I thought 'what situation would be best for the child? No access to dad, no access to mum, access to both, foster care? Tricky situation. That little girl is destined for a life of emotional turmoil. Frankly, the best situation would...

Hi Geoff, it's obvious that both parents were emotionally manipulating the child. Now, let me make it absolutely clear - I do not, under any circumstances, condone the actions of the father in any way whatsoever. In the end, the mother is rewarded for her manipulative behaviour (which is all...

That's right. This is what I was referring to in the first point of the previous post. This is a cop out on behalf of the court. Although it is not the best of situations, the child has a right of access to BOTH parents, where no actual abuse by either party has been proven. For the court to...

So in summary: - Both parents make what appear to be unsubstantiated claims against the other, effectively using the child as a weapon against each other. So we have established here that both parents can fairly be referred to as 'fat sacks of crap'. - Despite this, the court orders the mother...

Some people here have been questioning as to why men feel angry or upset after they have been worked over by their ex-wives and/or the system, so I thought I would post up some real life examples for people to consider, since a number of people have asked for them. Court orders father to have...

Don't start pulling this crap out. Sacrifice? What sacrifice? Women choose to have children and choose to stay home to raise those children. You want a career? Fine, don't have kids and live the feminist dream. Take responsibility for the choices made. In the overwhelming majority of cases, it...

No, you asked me if I thought he was a decent man because he was meeting his obligations, statistically speaking. A couple of points with regards to the statement: 1. He is not meeting his obligation, statistically speaking or otherwise (assuming his obligation is higher than $60 a week)...

What a silly question. Do you think women who do not meet their child support obligations are decent parents?

80% of non-custodial fathers meet their child support obligations, less than 50% of non-custodial mothers do.

This is known as hypergamy. Reading your OP and knowing all too well that it is way too common, this is the reason I will never, ever, under any circumstances, get married. LTR? Probably. But I'm making sure that I find a good, feminine woman. Unfortunately, this strikes out about 98% of the...