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    How do you tell your kids the truth and when?

    No you're not going bananas :p. It's post #124.
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    How do you tell your kids the truth and when?

    I KNOW my children haven't put the Father Christmas 'lie' in the same basket as the sort of lies people tell for selfish, malicious or fraudulent reasons. Infact they're quite skilled at telling the difference between different lies, ie. telling grandma her meal was nice (lie), when it made...
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    How do you tell your kids the truth and when?

    Both of my kids loved these lies and acknowledge they made times like Easter and Christmas very special (we're not a religious family but still celebrate the holiday and family aspect of it). They particularly enjoyed the traditional yearly visit to the Botanical Garden's where Easter Bunny...
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    How do you tell your kids the truth and when?

    It's only 2 women atm, but I understand how sometimes it can seem like more ;):D.
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    How do you tell your kids the truth and when?

    Both questioned the Santas at different malls and the logistics of him getting the presents out to kids overnight from perhaps 5yo or so, but we found it easy getting around that. Little kids can be so easily convinced :p. Eventually they very much suspected we were lying and asked to be told...
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    How do you tell your kids the truth and when?

    So do you think this is due to the 'Santa lie' or other types of lies, like white lies and politeness? Or is the reason, you won't flip out but the parents will ;). Always remain calm, rational and constructive no matter how hard it is and they'll more than likely not lie to you. My...
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    How do you tell your kids the truth and when?

    Agree. You simply have to look at the social skills of a person with Aspergers (who obviously can't help themselves) when they tell it like it is to see how they suffer socially. Telling white lies and showing politeness when sometimes you would rather not is part of successful social...
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    How do you tell your kids the truth and when?

    The fact is everyone lies sometimes, whether it's a little white lie like telling your MIL her dinner was nice when in fact it wasn't, to telling the door salesman you're in the middle of dinner when you're not. These are still lies and your young child knows it. Better to not be so black and...
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    How do you tell your kids the truth and when?

    Thought about that one before we started the lying and figured we'd rather teach by example the different reasons (good and bad) why people lie and so we don't appear like hypocrites later on ;). eg. signed a note to say my son was not well this morning so he could stay home and study...
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