Search results

Awww... thanks guys. Maybe my points are rational because I think most males are like most females, in that they try to live their lives without consciously scamming or screwing the opposite sex. Mark, I'm sure you've picked up on some of my views in the past supporting men in regards to...

See comment on conditioning. I think I scanned a news report recently that marriage rates are dropping ??

I agree with all your points, although marriage (or any longstanding union) when successful can be highly satisfying because of those strong bonds that come from that type of family living arrangement. The sense of family and bonding is compounded with the addition of children as well, but if...

I personally wouldn't like 5 husbands, so can't quite understand the 5 wives :eek:. Much better to have 1 husband/wife and discrete liasons (that the husband/wife knows about) so there are no favourites or bickering amongst each other, which does happen - just visit some Muslim forums to...

cm, but men keep on getting married :confused:. Geez, who wouldn't like multiple partners. Infact I've said to friends in the past that I think in an ideal world there wouldn't be any jealousy and possesiveness and we could ALL do this ;). So, as an accountant did you ask these men if...

I think there's far less marrying UP now to the extent you talk about, than ever before - again through not needing to. Most pair up in equal standing and are happy with it, rather than wanting to marry up and failing to do so. I know quite a few wealthy couples and they all started out the...

Firstly 'so many' is NOT a large percentage. I have raised this topic with my husband, and he thinks there is an issue with many of these men too. Agree they're not connecting with western women, but at the same time, the blame isn't with all or most western women. I think traits like...

Now I'm having visions of a country overun by rich Aussie w*****s and overdone blond bimbos :). When I said 'economics' I was referring to their general poverty and inability to break out of it, that these women are in, as the reason for their behaviour (personality) towards western men...

cm, Glad you didn't take offence. As a matter of fact, as I wrote I didn't visualize you personally as being a knob or someone with major deficiencies. I've been to Thailand. From my perspective western man is often western dollars/ticket to a more prosperous life. This WILL dictate how a...

I think things have changed because women want to be more employable and less dependent, and the males now are used to this, and think it's how things should be - I think they like this similarity between the sexes. It has nothing to do with women trying to be men or controlling men, and...

SS you seem a nice enough guy and didn't intend to upset you personally (or cm), but you did make statements generalizing women, both Asian and Western, that I responded to within the context of the subject raised. Most people know there are bad and good individuals, but what amazes me here...

I was talking generally, and wanted to state my point that I think most of the behaviour (personality) of third world Asian women towards western men is dictated by economics.

Could it be that many of these men (some even ;)) have been rejected, rather than the other way around, because of their skewed ideas and expectations, and flaws of their own, AND they've chased the wrong women. The fact is these 'compliant' women don't exist here because the desperation to...

I don't know about the same being toyboys going for chicks wearing pants. I'd say the same is the run of the mill broke 30yo, who's blowing all their income on beer, cars they can't afford, and clubs/going out, expecting to find a woman who will pay the rent and bills, allowing them to...