FF
Personally I think you need to sit down with the wife and say, I want to buy an IP for our future but I am afraid
I am organising a LOC to fund the deposit of IP etc.
My main concern is if we run short of money for our own personal use and own PPOR repayments for the first year or two, what would we do?
Now I read where your wife does not work by mutual agreement. Personally, I would be expecting her to say to you. Well if we do run short of money I will get a part time/casual job etc...to help us over the first year or two until we see how the IP works out and how much tax you get back.
I have 4 sister-in-laws who did not work whilst their kids were little and in school. 3 are working now and have little chance of retiring. 1 S-I-L still has her head buried in the sand.
Me, I took time off work, worked casually, worked part time, worked fulltime for 3 years when 50 - 53 years old and will be retired before turning 55 years of age.
IMHO 80-90K income to support a non working wife & 2 kids unless you have a car allowance from your employer would be a tight ask.
A partner works with you to achieve common goals...
FF
Our 2 kids did not go to private schools, 3 of my S-I-L's paid for their 9 kids to go through private Catholic schools each with onl their hubby working.
I am happy the way our kids turned out...
Cheers
Sheryn