Anyone ever been called a "Narcissist"?..

Narcissism has absolutely nothing to do with sociopaths nor psychopaths.


Yes, it is a different personality disorder, however not all but many serial killers/psychopaths exhibit narcissistic personalities. Google Ted Bundy, Dennis Radar (BTK), Gacy to name a few.



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Yes some psychopaths are narcissists, but not all narcissists are psychopaths.

Psychopathy is much more related to a complete lack of empathy.

Only once a person has a lack of empathy, and added machiavellianism (manipulative behaviour) do they start to resemble what people commonly consider a dangerous sociopath

Yes you are right, not all narcissists are psychopaths.

As per this medical journal/article, striking feature with narcissistic personality is "Lack of Empathy", frightening isn't it.

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...k-empathy-the-most-telling-narcissistic-trait
 
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Yes you are right, not all narcissists are psychopaths.

As per this medical journal/article, striking feature with narcissistic personality is "Lack of Empathy", frightening isn't it.

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...k-empathy-the-most-telling-narcissistic-trait

You are correct not all those who meet criteria for NPD are psychopaths. And not all psychopaths are narcissists. Psychopathy is not in the DSM or the englsih equivalent diagnostic system (ICD, ICD-10 being the latest version). Since Hare devised his psychopathy checklist - psychopathy has become of more interest. You can even go and do a "course" to hearn how to use the Hare Psychopathy Checklist. It's pretty expensive. There are other's in the field who disagree with this "diagnosis". In DSM there is "Antisocial Personality Disorder" - which has some of the features of psychopathy.

The article you site, is not from a medical journal.
 
You are correct not all those who meet criteria for NPD are psychopaths. And not all psychopaths are narcissists. Psychopathy is not in the DSM or the englsih equivalent diagnostic system (ICD, ICD-10 being the latest version). Since Hare devised his psychopathy checklist - psychopathy has become of more interest. You can even go and do a "course" to hearn how to use the Hare Psychopathy Checklist. It's pretty expensive. There are other's in the field who disagree with this "diagnosis". In DSM there is "Antisocial Personality Disorder" - which has some of the features of psychopathy.

The article you site, is not from a medical journal.


Thanks White duck, you are psychologist???
 
*shudders*

Will, in my experience the biggest mistake women make with regards to men is thinking that what they find attractive in men is the same thing men find attractive in women. Which is not even remotely close to true.

A woman strutting around like she's the **** of the walk, with a bit of arrogance and overflowing with confidence really isn't attractive. Men are attracted to women, not men in a skirt and heels.

As I've said before, men look for three things in a woman:

- young
- attractive
- feminine

That's the way it's always been and that's the way it always will be.
 
As I've said before, men look for three things in a woman:

- young
- attractive
- feminine

That's the way it's always been and that's the way it always will be.

Men may like to look at young, attractive and feminine women but that doesn't mean "men" are looking "for" those types. Don't mistake what you like to be what every other man likes. "Looking at" and "choosing" are very different.
 
As I've said before, men look for three things in a woman:

- young
- attractive
- feminine

That's the way it's always been and that's the way it always will be.

Define 'young' and define 'feminine'. Sounds like you're looking for some ingenue coquette. If you're 39 and your idea of 'young' is 22, something's not right. Men who are always finding 'young' women don't like to feel threatened by someone who is an equal. There are lots of gorgeous feminine women of 35.
 
... , men look for three things in a woman:

- young
- attractive
- feminine

No, most men also look for someone with a kind heart, someone who cares about people, someone with kindness, intelligence, loyalty. Youth and beauty are only skin keep. They fade. If there is nothing of substance beneath the exterior, what are you left with down the track? Nothing.

It's only the shallow men who look for only those qualities, because they can't offer much themselves.
 
To respond to the OP's original post: If you're worried because someone has called you a narcissist, then you can relax - you're not ;)
 
Narcissism has absolutely nothing to do with sociopaths nor psychopaths.

Just thought I'd mention also last week there was an interview on ABC radio with a health professional (cannot recall what sort - psychologist?) discussing the increase in narcissism and she definitely talked about the link between narcissism and both sociopaths and psychopaths. She particularly mentioned the recent killings in Norway by Anders Behring Breivik and several other notorious similar crimes.

From Wikipedia... Two teams of court-appointed forensic psychiatrists examined Breivik before his trial. The first report diagnosed Breivik as a paranoid schizophrenic. A second psychiatric evaluation was commissioned following widespread criticism of the first. The second evaluation was published one week before the trial; it concluded that Breivik was not psychotic during the attacks nor during the evaluation. He was instead diagnosed as having narcissistic personality disorder.

There is definitely some link. I think she was saying sociopaths are narcissist but (what I understood from listening, and probably fairly obviously) not always necessarily the other way around.
 
There is definitely some link. I think she was saying sociopaths are narcissist but (what I understood from listening, and probably fairly obviously) not always necessarily the other way around.

That's what I meant. Narcissists aren't necessarily sociopathic/psychopathic and sociopaths/psychopaths aren't necessarily narcissistic.
 
This is an area of interest for me.

The following are the factors which make up the psychopathy checklist.

Facet 1: Interpersonal
Glibness/superficial charm
Grandiose sense of self-worth
Pathological lying
Cunning/manipulative

Facet 2: Affective
Lack of remorse or guilt
Emotionally shallow
Callous/lack of empathy
Failure to accept responsibility for own actions

Facet 3: Lifestyle
Need for stimulation/proneness to boredom
Parasitic lifestyle
Lack of realistic, long-term goals
Impulsivity
Irresponsibility

Facet 4: Antisocial
Poor behavioral controls
Early behavioral problems
Juvenile delinquency
Revocation of conditional release
Criminal versatility
Many short-term marital relationships
Promiscuous sexual behavior

Many of them do overlap with the DSM for antisocial and narcissistic personality (or ICD equivalent). There's been a lot of research done in this field. There are people being held indefinately in psychiatric hosptials who score VERY highly on the psychopathy checklist who have committed terrible crimes and are thought to have little ability for rehabilitation and release to the community.

Then again, there are some pretty functional psychopaths who may score highly in in the first 3 facets but perhaps because of intelligence and / or better parenting do not score so highly on the antisocial traits. You will find them in the boardroom, the parliment and even on this forum.
 
Then again, there are some pretty functional psychopaths who may score highly in in the first 3 facets but perhaps because of intelligence and / or better parenting do not score so highly on the antisocial traits. You will find them in the boardroom, the parliment and even on this forum.

Quite. I took a stroll around the internet a few weeks ago and came across an article of 'The Top 5 Professions That Psychopaths Work In' and police officers and surgeons were both on the list. Can't remember the rest.

TBH, I was surprised finance wasn't in the Top 5.

Edit: Here we are. It's Top 10, not Top 5. http://www.forbes.com/sites/kellyclay/2013/01/05/the-top-10-jobs-that-attract-psychopaths/

I think a number of those make sense. I imagine seeing some of the things people in those professions see, you'd need to have some sort of disconnect to go in everyday. For instance, I knew a guy that used to be a cop whose job was to monitor kiddie porn sites. He ended up on disability as a result and eventually left the force. I couldn't even begin to imagine what doing that kind of work must be like.
 
Hahahaha completely used out of context, being called this should be the least of your worries, I could have thought of plenty of other options :D
 
When I take my three staffys (nina, pinta and santa maria) for a walk in the park, all the other people grab their dogs and head for their cars lol.
Maybe it should be skanky bogan with the "look at me; I'm so tuff because my dogs are!" attack mutts. :rolleyes:

Leashes are for woosies,
Let's hope one of your dogs isn't on the six o'clock news one day, with the follow up story of the owner being fined and the dog destroyed.

I thought you were a "reformed bogan"?

Sounds like you are still a fully paid up card carrying member to me.
 
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