Bankruptcy is not a dead end!!!!
As a result of a nasty devorce I was bankrupted at age 30. I now have a 35+ square home in Mawson Lakes in SA and 3 other investment properties approaching 1M in value. I am now 38.
MY ADVICE?
1. Get a copy of the relevent act of law and begin to understand it. I did this before I declared. There is a means to get out of bankruptcy within 6 months. Basically you have to meet the conditions, of which I believe there are still ten.
2. Once you are cleared begin to demonstrate a savings plan and negotiate directly with the bank manager. Dont beg but demand a chance to prove yourself.
Basically once you have the knowledge you can begin to use the rules in your favour rather than be manipulated by them. I discovered at this time in my life that knowledge is power and that bankruptcy is not the end.
I looked up out of that pit and set myself new goals. Today I have no fear in risking it all because I have already done so and lost it all once, and know that I can achieve it again if I have too.
I realise that this seems a bit holier than thow and not very specific advise about your situation, but at time like this all you rearly need is encouragement, knowledge, a clear plan and the drive (or stubborness) to suceed.
GOOD LUCK.