Trying to find a polite way to say "rubbish".
Firstly,Yes prices have increased in the past three years. Not debating that. Incomes have also increased - albeit not for everyone, but cetainly for the public servants living here.
But the part I take issue with is that 'married couples' have it better then singles. That may be true is you are talking about DINKS: Double Income, No Kids. But alot of people once they get married move on quickly from that stage. Personally, I was never in that stage. I got married when I was still an internal full time uni student, as was my Hubby. I have never made it into a 'career' because I went from fulltime uni student, to fulltime SAHM - It was a deliberate choice I would not change for all the money in the world.
I am not sure you know what SAHM means: Stay At Home Mum. That means, I have no income. Not only do I / did I have no income, but I also had children: the banks like to give you less money when you have dependants.
For my Hubby, He would have been much better off as a single person. Because his income would have just gone towards himself, not towards his wife and children. His servicability was about half of what it would have been without dependants.
When we moved to Canberra, our rental payments took up about 75% of my Hubbys income. With what was leftover we had to buy food, nappies, fuel, pay bills, etc, etc, etc. (And yes expenses for a 'family' are more then for a single, or even just a couple with no kids) We really were living paycheck to paycheck. There were a couple of times I had to borrow off my parents because of emergency expenses (like trips to the doctor, broken spectacles, and replacement window after someone broke into our car).
Canberra is "hard to buy" for any first home owner. Fullstop. I have friends in their 30's and 40's who really cannot afford to buy in Canberra at all, although a couple actually own houses elsewhere. The banks just will not give them to money they need to buy a 'house' to house their family (servicibility is a b!tch sometimes). They 'could' afford a unit, but you cann't fit three or four kids plus their parents into a 2 bed unit. It doesn't matter that their rent is around the same as mortgage repayments.
I am not, and have never said that it is 'easy'; All I have said is that it can be done. You just need to change your expectations, attitudes and those things you can control, and work with those things you cann't. And sometimes you just need to take that leap of faith, that risk, and hope that somehow everything will work out - even if it doesn't.
In my personal circumstances, my DH worked hard to increase his income, I took on a casual job (after hours, when my DH is home to have the kids - it only pays about $200-300 f/n). We also reduced our expenses as much as humanly possible, and put aside every little cent excess that we could spare. We looked to real estate we 'could' afford, even though it wasn't particularly wahat we wanted - it was the barest minimum we could live in. We made sacrifices in the short term to ensure our long term.
Even this IP we are building, the banks will give us money (just barely) for it, provided we rent it out. We cannot afford to live in it ourselves and maintain servicibility (and that house is very much comparable to our PPOR in size, etc - values have just risen).
Nothing worth doing was ever easy. For me, I am just stubborn, I like to get what I want and don't stop until I do. I also don't listen to anyone who says I cann't. If I did, I wouldn't have gotten my commerce degree, I wouldn't have gotten my law degree, I wouldn't have gotten married, I wouldn't have had three beautiful children, I wouldn't have my pets, I wouldn't own my PPOR, and I most certainly wouldn't have my IP (which is as we speak being painted). My DH would not have succeeded so well within his career. My Husband and I done all these things, by ourselves, and we have worked together and earnt everything we have, and everything we plan on having - because I can assure you that we have alot more planned.
My Hubby and I first hooked up in high school, we both have 5 siblings and grew up in housing commision homes. Where you go in life has very little to do with circumstances (they are but a temporary set back) and everything to do with attitude, belief and faith in your own ability to suceed. It is not so much about seeing the problems, but rather seeing the solutions and focusing on what you CAN do rather then what you CANN"T. Their are ALWAYS excuses as to why you cann't do something - successful people just find the reasons as to why and how they can.