She also didn't want to spend up in case she found a miracle cure and had nothing left to live on in later life.
One of the saddest days of my life was the day I received money from her estate. I really wish she had spent up and enjoyed her life earlier. Life is short and should be enjoyed. There needs to be some balance.
That is one of the saddest things to ever read here.
Not spending in case, she lived. What a bad bet. Expecting to die.
But I agree the mindset of some parents , especially depression era babies is very hard to change.
My Father in Law died 2 year back.
He left a home owned but 57 years old and renovated poorly 23 years ago, a 1973 car, and a significant amount of cash and shares. He left it all to wife and Mother in law has life interest in the interest and a free home to live in.
Wife and I sold home, bought mum, 2 bed villa near us, did it up new bathroom, AC etc..got a her a new car 2007 Hyundai with AC, air back ABS brakes, new Huge TV, went to IKEA and replaced almost all furniture. last purchase was an iPad. Mum happier than ever.
Helps that wife in only child and no greedy siblings to manage.
Peter 14.7
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