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Um, I didn't say anything like that, actually. I was talking about how I think it's important to have a work ethic. I didn't draw any black line.
Speaking of black and white thinking... There are many other options, one of which is my situation: "I love my parents so much, I'm so grateful that they resisted the temptation to give me money (which they could easily have afforded), but instead instilled in me a work ethic and entrepreneurial spirit which gave me the opportunity to earn the pride that comes with having stood on my own two feet".do u want your kids to say 'oh my mum was so tough on us, we had to work for everything' or do u want them to say 'i love my mum so much, i m so grateful for so many things that she did for me when she didn't have to'?
Originally Posted by Kath Russell
I'm happier to hand down education & equity.
So how do you propose giving this for Christmas?
A wrapped 'More wealth from residential property'
and an IOU 'equity in the future'
I like the idea of buying shares and reinvesting dividends.
Having a child own and see their shares increase in value many times would be exciting and probably spurt on a desire for future investing
Agree. My parents have helped me in the past and we've paid them back (our business).I think it is important to differentiate between a "hand out" and a "hand up". We have only ever advanced monetary assistance if we see the value of the use of it, and that it serves a purpose we consider important in life.
I think your family sounds fabulous, sue78, but I think a lot of it is your culture, as you acknowledge. I think most Aussie teenagers that I know would not be anywhere near as grateful, wouldn't have a part-time job, and wouldn't "return the favour" when they become adults, unfortunately.
Speaking of black and white thinking... There are many other options, one of which is my situation: "I love my parents so much, I'm so grateful that they resisted the temptation to give me money (which they could easily have afforded), but instead instilled in me a work ethic and entrepreneurial spirit which gave me the opportunity to earn the pride that comes with having stood on my own two feet".
No, that's what you said.If mum / dad bought a teenager a car, no teenager would keep a part-time job, is that what you said ?
No, that's what you said.
I don't know why you're so determined to put words into my mouth in this thread, but whatever...