That's understandable too. I hope you can find something suitable soon. I'm not sure about Sydney, but I notice in the inner areas of Melbourne that many people start off in flats when they have their first child. They seem to sell them and move to a larger dwelling once the second child comes along. That may or may not be an option for you? It could serve two purposes - gets you into the market, giving you a couple of years (or more) to build some equity and may allow you to buy closer to your place of work, thereby cutting down travel time?
It's an emotive issue for those like yourself who are trying to break into the market, and want to live in a decent place at a reasonable distance from your place of work. Your frustration is entirely understandable.
Regards Jason.
Thanks Jason. Actually, we are much like those people you mention in Melbourne. We started of looking at houses/terraces/semis but it is simply not likely to happen given our budget and the recent price spike (12% price rise makes a big difference to a highly leveraged FHB, and that is what Sydney has done this year, and then some more in the areas we are looking). So we are now looking at townhouses/apartments, it's just being realistic given the state of the market.
I am on a sound income in a steady job. I really feel for those FHB's who are on less than average or average incomes or who rely on both their incomes to pay the mortgage and support the family. If I'm finding it tight, then the vast majority of FHB's would simply not even have the option of owning anything (without family support), unless they want to live in the boondocks. I guess renting and buying an investment property is best if that is your situation. I feel very lucky to even be in the ownership conversation.