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Anyone else (besides me) going to tell their kids right from the very start that Santa's not real? Our bub is 1 year old now, and we have no intention of lying to her.
Could you seriously imagine your life without Christmas?
I was looking for a birth certificate today and found this letter from my oldest boy (now 21)....
"Dear tooth fairy
as christmas is said to bring good luck, it was bad luck for me because today I lost two teeth and lost both of them in the pool and with the manual creepy-crawly Mum vacumed them up.
So could I please have the total price for both of them which will add up to 4.00
Thank you
Signed"
There is no date, but on the reverse is something with a date of 1997 which would make him 8 when he wrote it.
Made me all gooey reading it.
Anyone else (besides me) going to tell their kids right from the very start that Santa's not real? Our bub is 1 year old now, and we have no intention of lying to her.
Argh! My eldest is a very good liar. Sometimes (ok, rarely) it is obvious because she's lying about something we know about, but when she pulls it off successfully she does it EXTREMELY well. I've found out about some doozies well after the event, which means she's got away with many, many more.Telling lies (successfully) is actually a sign of intelligence in a young child.
You will find yourself telling a lot of porky pies when you live with a toddler. It saves your sanity and stops them being miserable about life.
Telling lies (successfully) is actually a sign of intelligence in a young child. Who's their best teacher?
this corrected one of my beliefs...
http://ezinearticles.com/?Was-Santa-Claus-Invented-by-Coca-Cola?-The-True-History&id=815113
You will find yourself telling a lot of porky pies when you live with a toddler. It saves your sanity and stops them being miserable about life.
You're right about lying to toddlers though. Mummy has gone to the shops when Mummy is out getting a wax. Oh look, we've run out of biscuits when they've had 6 in a row and we know full well there's a new packet at the back of the cupboard and just aren't going to open it now. Toddlers don't need to know the truth
we naturally adjust how we talk to them (this helps prevents tantrums, on both sides).
Vincenzo, you say you never lie to your boy...
"Dad, what were you and Mum doing in bed this morning?"
Does this even work on kids who don't know what fat, sugar, or staying up actually means yet but do understand "gone"?but you're not allowed any because you'll get fat and the sugar in them will keep you up all night.".
Does this even work on kids who don't know what fat, sugar, or staying up actually means yet but do understand "gone"?
Anyone else (besides me) going to tell their kids right from the very start that Santa's not real? Our bub is 1 year old now, and we have no intention of lying to her.
I think it may take several years first to get the toddler to actually recognise sleep is a GOOD thing before I even attempt to introduce the concept of something that can keep you awake ... the other one gets it just fine though.Probably not, so teach them. I don't dumb things down for her. She'll get even the most complicated concepts eventually.