I think that's the difference - knowing where to spend and where to enjoy not spending.
A good meal, tips,paying for the best people, generosity of time and money to charities, good quality clothes that last: these are the hallmarks of the rich.
They can be frugal too; have budgets and don't waste money on ****.
This contrast is highlighted in the novel, The Talented Mr Ripley. Tom is the lower middle class guy who is overwhelmed by his desire for a 'rich lifestyle ' but has really 'bougeois' taste. The rich guy is understated, popular, happy living on a tight budget but doing it with boats and friends and generosity in Italy (during the 60's).
I'm trying to make that adjustment too - donate generously to the friend who runs to raise money for stroke victims and cut out a bit of junk food and unnecessary spending for a fortnight; take in stray animals; etc.
Thanks Blacky - feeling inspired to walk to work again.
Thanks Skater and others for your examples of getting through really tough times. Personally, I admire that incredible strength and pride. If anything will give you 'self esteem', that will!
My Mum brought us up on the smell of an oil rag and did a good job, I reckon.
Not that long ago, most people lived like that all the time.
A good meal, tips,paying for the best people, generosity of time and money to charities, good quality clothes that last: these are the hallmarks of the rich.
They can be frugal too; have budgets and don't waste money on ****.
This contrast is highlighted in the novel, The Talented Mr Ripley. Tom is the lower middle class guy who is overwhelmed by his desire for a 'rich lifestyle ' but has really 'bougeois' taste. The rich guy is understated, popular, happy living on a tight budget but doing it with boats and friends and generosity in Italy (during the 60's).
I'm trying to make that adjustment too - donate generously to the friend who runs to raise money for stroke victims and cut out a bit of junk food and unnecessary spending for a fortnight; take in stray animals; etc.
Thanks Blacky - feeling inspired to walk to work again.
Thanks Skater and others for your examples of getting through really tough times. Personally, I admire that incredible strength and pride. If anything will give you 'self esteem', that will!
My Mum brought us up on the smell of an oil rag and did a good job, I reckon.
Not that long ago, most people lived like that all the time.