I just love property but the topic I love most is psychology. Now I am pretty much am amateur but I find it fascinating to research what makes a person tick, how they construct their reality, how this affects their focus and interpretation on the life around them, and therefore the decision they make and their reactions to events in their life. The thing about psychology is that it can usually only predict what a group of people will tend to do not what an individual will do. So this makes for lots of interesting discussions and no concrete conclusions.
From previous threads on this forum it seems that the two most polarising topics and the beliefs around marriage and money - not necessarily combined. What are your underlying beliefs on each? Why do you think that way? Would you like to change it? Is there a relationship between your beliefs on money and your beliefs on marriage (or long term committed relationship)
My background which effects my own beliefs are:
Bought up poor in wealthy suburb
Parents married for life
Worked in crisis telephone counseling, community support services, HR, customer service, local government, banking, university and tourism.
BA majoring in literature and Chinese (did best in stats)
Been with GoMichael since 1989 (married 1999)
Two kids
Live in inner Melbourne with broad demographics including socio economic, cultural background, and sexual orientation. I guess it would be seen as socially progressive.
In terms of money I believe that you do create your own destiny but early influences make a HUGE difference more so than economic status. I suspect I would be in a very different place right now had I been poor in a poor area. I knew extremely wealthy on a first name basis and they were enormously influential in terms of how I perceived the wealthy and the pursuit of money.
So my beliefs that control the decisions in my life are:
Life is short – taking no risks is the biggest risk of all. We all know how the story ends, we just don’t know when. I don’t want to miss out. I want to enjoy life. I see the risks, and I don’t unnecessarily seek them out (no base jumping for me!) but I don’t avoid them either as they are the flip side of all the things I treasure most in life.
I think long and hard before I commit to something because I don’t undertake it lightly. Once I decide to commit I don’t contemplate failure. I put all my energy into ensuring that it is a success. I don’t blame. I don’t look for excuses. I focus on what I can do to create the life I want. So far it’s working for me (and my marriage, children and wealth).
From previous threads on this forum it seems that the two most polarising topics and the beliefs around marriage and money - not necessarily combined. What are your underlying beliefs on each? Why do you think that way? Would you like to change it? Is there a relationship between your beliefs on money and your beliefs on marriage (or long term committed relationship)
My background which effects my own beliefs are:
Bought up poor in wealthy suburb
Parents married for life
Worked in crisis telephone counseling, community support services, HR, customer service, local government, banking, university and tourism.
BA majoring in literature and Chinese (did best in stats)
Been with GoMichael since 1989 (married 1999)
Two kids
Live in inner Melbourne with broad demographics including socio economic, cultural background, and sexual orientation. I guess it would be seen as socially progressive.
In terms of money I believe that you do create your own destiny but early influences make a HUGE difference more so than economic status. I suspect I would be in a very different place right now had I been poor in a poor area. I knew extremely wealthy on a first name basis and they were enormously influential in terms of how I perceived the wealthy and the pursuit of money.
So my beliefs that control the decisions in my life are:
Life is short – taking no risks is the biggest risk of all. We all know how the story ends, we just don’t know when. I don’t want to miss out. I want to enjoy life. I see the risks, and I don’t unnecessarily seek them out (no base jumping for me!) but I don’t avoid them either as they are the flip side of all the things I treasure most in life.
I think long and hard before I commit to something because I don’t undertake it lightly. Once I decide to commit I don’t contemplate failure. I put all my energy into ensuring that it is a success. I don’t blame. I don’t look for excuses. I focus on what I can do to create the life I want. So far it’s working for me (and my marriage, children and wealth).