Hi Schlong...
It's not the divorce itself which triggers the stamp duty exemption, it's the Consent Orders.
When your consent orders are done, they will specify the transfers of any properties, and on the head of these orders you can transfer properties between the arties to the divorce without incurring stamp duties.
You will need a simple transfer document and the consideration portion of the transfer will state "in consideration of love and affection". But I made my conveyancer put "In consideration of divorce"... (Not much love or affection there! hehe)
I did mine through a conveyancer for two reasons, firstly so that my ex knew that there was a third party professional involved, and, because at that turmultuous time, the last thing I needed was something going wrong with the conveyance. This is not the right time to be getting do-it-yourself-conveyancing lessons, IMHO.
Anyway, I hope this helps, Remember, usual disclaimers apply, I am not a solicitor. Contact the office of state revenue in your state for further information.
asy