I know you're really good at doing the property thing and property lends itself nicely to being a money making venture.
From my point of view, counselling is not something that is best done with the primary motivation of making money - and therefore isn't as well suited to being a business set-up.
It's not much good sitting there resenting someone who didn't turn up last week and is half an hour late this week and off her head to boot. Plus, how would you go with 20 clients every week for the foreseeable future?
The good thing about dealing with this type of work in someone else's business is:
1/ you can leave it at work - as you've already mentioned
2/ you get paid no matter what so you don't have to deal with your fear while you're trying to listen to someone else
3/ your focus can be on the client and not on marketing and self-promotion
As far as dealing with the pressures of working for someone else - these are skills and strategies that you can pass onto your clients.
The main thing to remember is that you do a good job and the marketing and money-making is your manager's problem, not yours. Managers are often motivated by their own greed or desire to look good - it's important to comply with their wishes and at the same time detach from their anxiety so that you can do a good job.
I would save the counselling business for when you're older, richer and your sole motivation is to give something back. Then you won't have to have heaps of clients and it won't upset you if someone doesn't turn up.
I admire your ability to do any counselling at all. It would drive me nuts!
