If anyone has read 'The Slap' (great premise, but the book wandered off into the personal lives of the characters too much neglecting the central issue)....
My daughter was playing in one of those tube slides, the fully enclosed ones. Like most kids, she likes to crawl up from the bottom to the top (at the moment, with my assistance...yes, it involves me getting inside the blooming thing & crawling up after her ).
This one kid about 3 crawled past her a few times. There's a bit of contact, but not much so I figure let him go. She's only 18mths so she gets in the way of the older kids a bit & I try to get her out of their way. Most kids are great & understand she's only a baby & doesn't really 'get it' yet. The parents are generally good too & tell their kids to 'watch out for the baby'.
Anyhoo, this one kid gets in the slide again, can't get past her & slaps her on the back I'm instantly enraged & it takes all my willpower not to grab the little blighter by the ankles, pull him out & watch his head bonk on the ground (not very adult of me I know, but that's what I thought in that moment).
So I point my finger at him & say sternly, 'Don't hit!'. I grab her & go off to another area.
I'm not one to hit kids at all & I know this was a very minor incident, but gosh it got me riled.
So, if the parent was not around, would you be tempted to discipline someone else's kid & if so, how would you do it?
My daughter was playing in one of those tube slides, the fully enclosed ones. Like most kids, she likes to crawl up from the bottom to the top (at the moment, with my assistance...yes, it involves me getting inside the blooming thing & crawling up after her ).
This one kid about 3 crawled past her a few times. There's a bit of contact, but not much so I figure let him go. She's only 18mths so she gets in the way of the older kids a bit & I try to get her out of their way. Most kids are great & understand she's only a baby & doesn't really 'get it' yet. The parents are generally good too & tell their kids to 'watch out for the baby'.
Anyhoo, this one kid gets in the slide again, can't get past her & slaps her on the back I'm instantly enraged & it takes all my willpower not to grab the little blighter by the ankles, pull him out & watch his head bonk on the ground (not very adult of me I know, but that's what I thought in that moment).
So I point my finger at him & say sternly, 'Don't hit!'. I grab her & go off to another area.
I'm not one to hit kids at all & I know this was a very minor incident, but gosh it got me riled.
So, if the parent was not around, would you be tempted to discipline someone else's kid & if so, how would you do it?