Sorry to take your breath away but my children were born at home and damned if I'll let anyone say I'm not entitled to this choice. To describe homebirth as an act of hostility and contempt simply shows a complete lack of understanding on your part. Far from ingratitude, everyday I give thanks that my births were such that this was possible. It is not midwifery vs obstetrics, the two compliment each other. Each has a role. It is about choice. As an Aussie I feel blessed to have choice.
You are entitled to this choice, and I think your attitude is completely appropriate. You're obviously not one of the people that I'm referring to. Many advocates of home birth do not share your views (about the two being complementary), unfortunately, and say malicious things about OBs, attributing intervention (when necessary) to some kind of ill-will on an OBs part, rather than an effort to save lives.
mystique said:
I also choose to grow my own organic fruit and vegetables and to trample the groung with my hippy feet. Do you realise big multinational companies are breeding crops that cannot be grown from saved seed, risking the foodsource of millions of people who have to grow their own food to survive.
If you want to grow your own organic food, power to you! But it's precisely because of my concern for the food source of people in the third world that I support the fertilisers and pesticides which allow their land to support them. We obviously see this differently, and that's OK.
I have a science degree - majoring in genetics - and am well-familiar with GM foods, and am pro-GM. If you're not, that's OK. I guess my point is that if well-informed people can take opposing views with the same goal (food for the third world), then it's not clear-cut, is it? Yet many "organic" advocates insist their choice is ethically superior, when I don't believe that it is.
mystique said:
Your line of thinking suggests that noone should own more than one property because millions of people on this planet have no roof over their heads. You do own more than one don't you?
You've missed the point. It's not about what you have or don't have; it's about your
attitude towards it. There always will be inequalities in the world, and I don't even think it's beneficial to try and get rid of that, but if you're blessed to have more than most, I feel that your moral obligation to those who have less, is not to get rid of your excess, but at least to
appreciate it.
And I do feel incredibly grateful that I have sufficient resources to consider investing.
mystique said:
Just because a person makes choices that aren't conventional (whatever that is) doesn't mean they have no sense of humility or that they are ungrateful. We wouldn't be the lucky country without the right to choose.
I agree with you entirely. I don't believe I said anything that contradicts any of that. (And most of my choices are unconventional, too.
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