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I haven't heard anything yet, so i imagine i wont and i'm not going to press it any further. thanks for all the encouragement and alternate POVs.

not wanting to even re-acquaint - you sound almost accusatory. i just want to make sure they're okay all these years later, and CLOSE a VERY OPEN DOOR. assumptions are the mother of all f*ck ups - remember that - and you assumed wrong. it's not about re-visting "ol' times", it's about making...

well, i did just now. will let you know of the outcome.

not even a friend request - just a msg.

our pasts are linked so it's going ot be painful for whoever makes contact - i wasn't the victim but i knew both the victim and the perp. i just want to make sure they're okay all these years later - help close some doors for them (and me i guess...).

cool thanks marg.

yeah i had the same thing - just ignore them. they get the message.

they've definitely moved on with their life, been to UWA, got a partner etc etc. we would be beyond that whole nastiness, but i don't want there to be any animoscity (sp?) or guilt or making them deal with it all over again. i certainly wouldn't want to bring it up again, anyway. cheers guys.

i can't contact a third party because i can't locate the parents and we have no mutual friends anymore (it's been about 15 years). i have found them on FB and it was pure chance. i think i'll leave it. we were close, they may contact me - after all, they're nearly 30 now too so they'll...

how would someone go about this? i have their details and would like to contact them to see how they're doing. i used to know this person very well growing up together and for some reason i've had this itch to contact them lately and see how they are all these years later. i was very close to...