Hi All,
My dad is dying of cancer, so it made me evaluate my family's & my situation. I am mentally muddled and traumatized right now, and worrying about finances should be the last thing. But with a contract on a 2 bedroom unit going unconditional on the 9th of July, sitting around crying won't help. I need intelligent help, your collective intelligence as being outsiders won't be muddled by emotions. I'm grateful for any advice
As I said, 2 bedroom unit in the heart of Caboolture CBD - everything is within walking or up to 1klm away: hospital, tafe, uni, schools, shopping, markets, hwy, police station, etc. Purchase price is 189900 & I can cover the 20% deposit with own savings + FHOG, & cover extra costs like legals, settlement, etc. I was going with RAMS fixed 10 years at 8.75% P&I originally, thinking of splitting 50/50 with fixed & variable. For arguments sake, my weekly repayment is 278 max 300/week, say another 50-70 for body corp & council rate per week. I originally bought to live with my partner, now I'm not sure about that relationship either. Rental appraisal can be b/t 180-210/week. I am willing to look at other loan options as the loan contract is a preapproval and the most i lose out is the valuation fee etc.
My parents own a house that easily gets 300K if not more even in this slow market. My mum (they are immigrants and not as savvy financially ok) says mortgage is approx $1100/mo, they have tenants who are paying approx $230/week (I believe $250/week is the bottom of the market for Inala for a 3 bedroom home on say 800sqm block, guessing atm - just know its big). The family, me incl, is living with my bro who has his own mortgage, but I think he is handling ok has savings, thinking about an IP. The tenants are good but I don't want my mum to have the hassle of managing so I either take over or get a PM.
I have saved for 2 years to get my own property + it be closer to work. But if I move into the unit I feel like I am abandoning my family. There's a few scenarios I thought up:
- continue with buying of the unit, give my mum say $250-300/week (& survive of $50/week) &:
= live in for 6 months to get FHOG, then rent out
= rent it out for 11 months then move in for the FHOG, live in 6 months then rent it out
= live in it
The problem with this scenario is what if I need money for the funeral (I think they are like 10K?) i won't have spare cash as it will go to the deposit + this unit needs a makeover albeit the cheapest I can do. My friends are willing to help financially for the funeral arrangements, but I hate to be a financial burden on anyone, other than banks, I've never borrowed more than $100 from anyone and not pay it back within a week.
- don't continue with buying the unit and put all my money towards funeral & their mortgage, get them on better loan if possible, and cut down their debt (and save for my own down the track) & handle their finances for them.
- sell my parents home, pay down all debt, and then my mum have savings to live on (say 200K) for retirement (she is 47yo), while she continue to live with my bro & I buy the unit
that's all the options i can think of.. if you guys can think of anymore.. I be grateful for all advice
My dad is dying of cancer, so it made me evaluate my family's & my situation. I am mentally muddled and traumatized right now, and worrying about finances should be the last thing. But with a contract on a 2 bedroom unit going unconditional on the 9th of July, sitting around crying won't help. I need intelligent help, your collective intelligence as being outsiders won't be muddled by emotions. I'm grateful for any advice
As I said, 2 bedroom unit in the heart of Caboolture CBD - everything is within walking or up to 1klm away: hospital, tafe, uni, schools, shopping, markets, hwy, police station, etc. Purchase price is 189900 & I can cover the 20% deposit with own savings + FHOG, & cover extra costs like legals, settlement, etc. I was going with RAMS fixed 10 years at 8.75% P&I originally, thinking of splitting 50/50 with fixed & variable. For arguments sake, my weekly repayment is 278 max 300/week, say another 50-70 for body corp & council rate per week. I originally bought to live with my partner, now I'm not sure about that relationship either. Rental appraisal can be b/t 180-210/week. I am willing to look at other loan options as the loan contract is a preapproval and the most i lose out is the valuation fee etc.
My parents own a house that easily gets 300K if not more even in this slow market. My mum (they are immigrants and not as savvy financially ok) says mortgage is approx $1100/mo, they have tenants who are paying approx $230/week (I believe $250/week is the bottom of the market for Inala for a 3 bedroom home on say 800sqm block, guessing atm - just know its big). The family, me incl, is living with my bro who has his own mortgage, but I think he is handling ok has savings, thinking about an IP. The tenants are good but I don't want my mum to have the hassle of managing so I either take over or get a PM.
I have saved for 2 years to get my own property + it be closer to work. But if I move into the unit I feel like I am abandoning my family. There's a few scenarios I thought up:
- continue with buying of the unit, give my mum say $250-300/week (& survive of $50/week) &:
= live in for 6 months to get FHOG, then rent out
= rent it out for 11 months then move in for the FHOG, live in 6 months then rent it out
= live in it
The problem with this scenario is what if I need money for the funeral (I think they are like 10K?) i won't have spare cash as it will go to the deposit + this unit needs a makeover albeit the cheapest I can do. My friends are willing to help financially for the funeral arrangements, but I hate to be a financial burden on anyone, other than banks, I've never borrowed more than $100 from anyone and not pay it back within a week.
- don't continue with buying the unit and put all my money towards funeral & their mortgage, get them on better loan if possible, and cut down their debt (and save for my own down the track) & handle their finances for them.
- sell my parents home, pay down all debt, and then my mum have savings to live on (say 200K) for retirement (she is 47yo), while she continue to live with my bro & I buy the unit
that's all the options i can think of.. if you guys can think of anymore.. I be grateful for all advice