Elke - Before even getting close to putting in an offer ... learn the market you want to buy in. Know what properties have been selling for and develop a good feel for the fair market price in your chosen area. I can't stress this enough ... it's gives you confidence in dealing with the real estate agents. You are being bluffed because you don't know enough about what you are attempting to buy.
I just don't get emotionally attached to any property, I never have ... it's just a way of making money even if it's a PPOR..... seriously you have to be detached when negotiating. I have walked away from many deals due to your scenario. I will monitor an area for months before putting in offers .... I know to within a couple of thousand dollars what a property is worth. It takes time and patience, but will save you many thousands of dollars over time having this knowledge.
I set my price beforehand and that is it ..... The numbers have to stack up. As cu@thetop said ... if the agent plays the "we have a better offer" card then I walk away ... I will not be played into paying above my price.
It may not feel like it right now, but if you want this property go back with what you believe is a fair price ... If you miss out then so be it .... trust me .... another great property and brilliant deal is only a day away.
Good luck
Mystery
PS ... I have been buying property since 1978
I just don't get emotionally attached to any property, I never have ... it's just a way of making money even if it's a PPOR..... seriously you have to be detached when negotiating. I have walked away from many deals due to your scenario. I will monitor an area for months before putting in offers .... I know to within a couple of thousand dollars what a property is worth. It takes time and patience, but will save you many thousands of dollars over time having this knowledge.
I set my price beforehand and that is it ..... The numbers have to stack up. As cu@thetop said ... if the agent plays the "we have a better offer" card then I walk away ... I will not be played into paying above my price.
It may not feel like it right now, but if you want this property go back with what you believe is a fair price ... If you miss out then so be it .... trust me .... another great property and brilliant deal is only a day away.
Good luck
Mystery
PS ... I have been buying property since 1978