One month on and I wanted to give a bit of an update to illustrate that all the advice and opinions given were very much appreciated.
I have wasted... maybe I should say "invested" many many hours trawling through the threads on here. The initial crazy brain overload has slowed down and I have started to move forward.
I have paid off all bad debts.
I have read Jan Somers books.
Have spent time just reading, reading and reading some more.
Have become very familiar with the search button
Have met with a with a broker.
Still working on an accountant. I thought I had found one and everything was going great until 5 minutes into our last meeting his partner? told us that she would never invest in real estate as its too risky and the thought of having tenants was "yuk". I suggested that if they felt this way that I didn't think that they were the right people for us. - spent the next hour backtracking and trying to convince me otherwise. - had I not found this forum I would have not had the knowledge behind me and would probably had signed all my money away into managed funds. Not saying its wrong, just not what I really want. They were also financial planners and found that what other people had said earlier in this thread to be on the money. I am so happy that I had some knowledge behind me. It really helped to have some idea about what I wanted to achieve which is also helping in being able to find the people I need to help me with that.
They did have one interesting thing to say "no advice is bad advice". I felt this to be very true, you just need to decide what advice will help you move forward with your goals and what advice you to push aside. All advice is food for thought.
I have a meeting with a different accountant this week, one that comes highly recommended by people I highly respect and look up to in regards to investing.
I haven't actually "done" anything yet but feel I have finally got the ball rolling in the right direction. I am ready.. bring on 2010!
Anyway thank you all again for being so generous with your opinions and ideas.