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The day my son rings up and says he has a couple of slack weeks and that he'll run the show while his mother and I take a bit of time off I might change my mind. Until then I agree.Aceyducey said:Kids are lucky to get whatever they get
Cheers,
Aceyducey
geoffw said:My kids have not yet begun to appreciate the value of money. It's a difficult lesson to try to get them to see that money, well, costs money.
If they really want to appreciate having money, they have to learn what it's like not having money first- and they have to learn how to get wealth in their own right.
Until then, I just won't die, so they won't get their hands on any of it before they're ready!
Ditto . Luckily all our family live into their 80's so short of an inappropriatly positioned truck , they should get it just in time to pay for their retirement
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Garry K said:That's an interesting point. If I live to 85, my eldest son will be 65. If he's going to spend all his money on having a great time until 65, and rely on me bequeathing him enough to retire on, then bad luck for him GarryK
My parents (in their 80's) are still living frugally so they have something to leave us all, even though we keep saying SPEND IT ON YOURSELVES - WE ARE FINE!
I think the mindset fits the era you were born in usually. If I'm a greedy babyboomer it's because I did it tough NOT easy, and want to have it a little easier on the home stretch.
Cheers
Olly
geoffw said:They are using annuities- that's going to run out one day. It's more likely that I will be supporting them than vice versa- and that's the way it should be.
They did have a window of about ten years when they could afford to, and were healthy enough to, travel, and enjoyed that window.
Mark, you and SBE voice concerns about caring for the oldies I don't really understand.Mark Laszczuk said:sbe,
I'm with you on the supporting parents deal too. I find it a little confusing that some people would have the position of not believing they 'need' to leave anything for their kids - which I agree with - but turning around and saying they feel an obligation to support their parents if they require it?
But then again, just as most parents wouldn't jump on a plane to the Bahamas if one or more of their children were destitute, I don't think many children would leave their parents to suffer if they were in severe financial dire straits either.
sbe said:Can I have a new option - Whatever I didn't spend ?
Why is that confusing?Mark Laszczuk said:I find it a little confusing that some people would have the position of not believing they 'need' to leave anything for their kids - which I agree with - but turning around and saying they feel an obligation to support their parents if they require it?