I wonder how to prevent a business partnership that could also be a love relationship from getting in trouble.
If people dont know each other for decades, yet hope to make both love and building welath, perhaps a new business work, i wonder what sort of strategies could prevent stess building up and deal with it really well when it did.
When i ran a business in the past i would write feedback but look at it a few days later and only relate the most important point to staff, sandwiched amongst alot of positive feedback.
I know someone who did marry fast, go into business fast and even though both were loving people it was just too much too soon perhaps and they ended up going separate ways and few years later.
Yet others go into second marriages and do invest together and it goes fine including some on these boards.
part is personality, people who can take feedback make changes be flexible
rather than people who are easily argumentative, defensive, controlling,
part is time out , which when people dont live together 24/7 they can recoverfrom stress building up sooner than if they work and live together too soon
part is as i wrote already, noting down feedback but not necesarily telling it immediately as what stresses a person immediately may be seen differently a day or two later.
I had someone help me during the recent frantic flood that i didnt know very well. He worked his guts out helping me, but did do a couple of things that at such a frantic stressful time were stressful for me, but the next day those things totally didnt bother me and i was just overawed by his incredible assistance. If i would have told him thigns that had stressed me at the time, he would have felt hurt, unappreciated in light of all he had done to help and it would have just been hurtful, and yet people who work together need to be able to give feedback and make changes without taking offense easily.
We were taught in my uni course, that feedback is just a way of learning so we actually would ask for it, and an effort was made to learn and not take offence.
I know legally also an exit strategy needs to be worked out before going into anything with anyone.
what other precautions strategies would u suggest before going into something that could be both a love and business relationship and we want both to be happy and long lasting.
Thanks.
If people dont know each other for decades, yet hope to make both love and building welath, perhaps a new business work, i wonder what sort of strategies could prevent stess building up and deal with it really well when it did.
When i ran a business in the past i would write feedback but look at it a few days later and only relate the most important point to staff, sandwiched amongst alot of positive feedback.
I know someone who did marry fast, go into business fast and even though both were loving people it was just too much too soon perhaps and they ended up going separate ways and few years later.
Yet others go into second marriages and do invest together and it goes fine including some on these boards.
part is personality, people who can take feedback make changes be flexible
rather than people who are easily argumentative, defensive, controlling,
part is time out , which when people dont live together 24/7 they can recoverfrom stress building up sooner than if they work and live together too soon
part is as i wrote already, noting down feedback but not necesarily telling it immediately as what stresses a person immediately may be seen differently a day or two later.
I had someone help me during the recent frantic flood that i didnt know very well. He worked his guts out helping me, but did do a couple of things that at such a frantic stressful time were stressful for me, but the next day those things totally didnt bother me and i was just overawed by his incredible assistance. If i would have told him thigns that had stressed me at the time, he would have felt hurt, unappreciated in light of all he had done to help and it would have just been hurtful, and yet people who work together need to be able to give feedback and make changes without taking offense easily.
We were taught in my uni course, that feedback is just a way of learning so we actually would ask for it, and an effort was made to learn and not take offence.
I know legally also an exit strategy needs to be worked out before going into anything with anyone.
what other precautions strategies would u suggest before going into something that could be both a love and business relationship and we want both to be happy and long lasting.
Thanks.