How do you decide which is better? I am interested in others perspective / 2cents on this.
I work in a factory and wife works in public service. We don't have a business and are not likely to own/ run a business in the future. We have 3 young children.
It depends on your circumstances, and what you consider to be more important. Here are some ideas:
Family trusts offer some asset protection, which given you're both employees, you don't need in terms of work liability. If you're just starting, the property is likely to be negatively geared, which you can't claim against your personal income if it's in a family trust. That will be a cost to you. When the properties become tax positive, the income streaming ability of a family trust is valuable, but recent tax changes means you can only distribute a few hundred dollars tax effectively to each child under 18.
A big window of opportunity is when the children are 18 and they're not making much income (e.g. they're still studying), but that's a long way off for you. By then, there are other ways of structuring your tax.
When you sell, owning in a family trust would allow you to steam the capital gains, which you can't do in your own name. One option is to hold the property until death, then put it into a testamentary trust. Then if the testamentary trust sells the property, the gains can be distributed tax effectively to minors (such as grandchildren). (Minors are taxed at adult rates on income from testamentary trusts.)
So you have to decide the tradeoffs. Are you willing to give up the tax losses now for probable lower capital gains tax in the future? How important is asset protection to you? How much property are you planning to buy (which likely increases the tax deductions now, but also increases likely capital gains in the future). That sort of thing.
My own experience is that people rarely use trusts early in their IP investing careers, unless they are in a job with high legal risk. Remember you can always buy the first couple in your own name, then as your portfolio gets bigger and you have more tax flexibility, future investments can be made in trusts or companies or whatever.