goddessk said:I am a high income earner, I own a BMW convertible and my own home (not debt free). I've also rented in my life, in suburbs where I couldn't afford to buy at the time. I've spent loads and loads of money, and had a damn good time doing so, yet I have also saved (and continue to save) when I have a goal. So I don't own investment property yet, but I will, and if I don't...well my life will go on and I'll still enjoy it thanks very much. Not everyone wants to stop working. Some of us enjoy our jobs strangely enough!
Everyone is entitled to their opinion and the way they want to run their life but there is no right or wrong way to do things. It depends on your goals and your dreams. I very much enjoy my own home and would personally now hate to rent, and I have never regretted a minute of hooning around in my car with the roof down. I could get hit by a bus tomorrow or even worse become ill (god forbid) and so I live for today whilst I try to sensibly plan for tomorrow in case I get to that ripe old age of 100.
As Kenneth said, lets respect everyones choices. These forums are to help each other where we can, but also to respect that we all want different things out of life and we all live in different ways. As a newcomer to the forums, I have found that responses can sometimes be critical of others choices or suggestions.
Not all of us want to put every cent into investments and live on the smell of an oil rag in order to give up working for someone else. Some of us have busted our butts to earn that big salary and we have the right to enjoy it. Do we not also have the right to become investors as well? And if we don't want to become investors for some reason, does that make us idiots because we don't have a large net worth but we have a BMW??
Am I sensitive...hell yes! Sorry, but my whole life just got shot down in flames in this one forum.
GoddessK
It is your life and you can live it the way you want to , and many of the people of this forum have a focus ( IMHO ) that is toooo extreme the other way.
There's a book around called Ordinary Millionaires which makes interesting reading, first of all because it describes some effective ways to make money , but secondly becuase of the exteme focus that all the people described in the book have to making money.
One guy has no family at all because the only thing he's worried about is making money . He's going to donate his wealth to the government because " Australia's been good to him ...."
There are people on this forum who put down and undermine others (sometimes subtly , sometimes not so ) who don't have the same underlying values that they think are necessary to create wealth.
Learn what you need from the forum and incorporate what you want to into your life and lead your life the way you want to.
Once you've decided what course you want to take in wealth creation, you will out perform the majority of those who are critisising you .
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( personally I'll stick to my Volvo because it's safer , but that's my Priority )