I need to vent... and what better place than Somersoft (actually this is the only place people dont know the person I'm talking about)
I work in a small team. For about 5 years we had a fantastic team of 5 people - we worked very collaboratively together, but we all had distinct roles. We all got on very well.
Over the last year 3 people have left the team and we have new some people. I clash with one of the new people big time - lovely person, but she is driving me insane!
She is a control freak. She needs to be in control of everything and I mean EVERYTHING! Doesn't matter if I'm supposed to be looking after it, or even if people in other states are supposed to be looking after it. She needs to be involved.
Today she seriously annoyed me and I told her so - but all my colleagues think I've snapped because of stress (I have! but not the stress they are thinking). I've been dealing with a sensitive matter with a stakeholder and today she decides she will get in on the action. Unbeknownst to me, she starts emailing the stakeholder with all sorts of requests and tells them she needs to be copied in from now on.
I've never met anyone like her. We are the same level, but she questions what I am doing all day - she must have asked me 10 times today what I was doing. She'll do it nicely or through an email so my colleagues dont know she is doing it. She gets on fine with most of the other team members - maybe its me.
How do you deal with a control freak? Why do people need to be control freaks?? This woman is driving me crazy!!!! Enough to make me consider leaving my job. Arrrgh!
I work in a small team. For about 5 years we had a fantastic team of 5 people - we worked very collaboratively together, but we all had distinct roles. We all got on very well.
Over the last year 3 people have left the team and we have new some people. I clash with one of the new people big time - lovely person, but she is driving me insane!
She is a control freak. She needs to be in control of everything and I mean EVERYTHING! Doesn't matter if I'm supposed to be looking after it, or even if people in other states are supposed to be looking after it. She needs to be involved.
Today she seriously annoyed me and I told her so - but all my colleagues think I've snapped because of stress (I have! but not the stress they are thinking). I've been dealing with a sensitive matter with a stakeholder and today she decides she will get in on the action. Unbeknownst to me, she starts emailing the stakeholder with all sorts of requests and tells them she needs to be copied in from now on.
I've never met anyone like her. We are the same level, but she questions what I am doing all day - she must have asked me 10 times today what I was doing. She'll do it nicely or through an email so my colleagues dont know she is doing it. She gets on fine with most of the other team members - maybe its me.
How do you deal with a control freak? Why do people need to be control freaks?? This woman is driving me crazy!!!! Enough to make me consider leaving my job. Arrrgh!