You make so many assumptions about people.
Yes I do, I make no bones about it. And if you think you don't then you're not being honest with yourself; because (whether you want to hear it or not) as human beings (a sad reality is that) WE ALL DO.
Sometimes "assumptions" are all I have to go on, and if it means making a bad choice based on a wrong assumption; then I bend over and take what's coming to me.
In which case, allow me to bend over (yet again) for the inappropriate rolling eyes smiley
Anyway, thanks for clarifying the definition aggressive vs assertive. You call it black; I'll call it grey; but at the end of the day it's all individual opinion, and you are entitled to yours Pushka.
I do judge; I am critical but I ALSO get up in the middle of the night, 3-4 sometimes to pick up the pieces of human beings that others who claim far greater superiority than you or I have inflicted on them. I have seen these people fall for the same rubbish over and over, because they don't believe anyone would ever hurt them (again); they don't know any better. But I do!!! Now if that makes me assuming or aggressive, then so be it!!! I don't ask for accolades, hell I don't even ask for a "thanks" all I want is for them to be safe; and that is all I wanted for Jaffa (albeit I went about it inappropriately) and as usual inserting sarcasm when it was uncalled for. But I know that Jaffa has made mistakes, some that could have been very ugly had it not been for warnings from others more in-the-know in this forum (and no, not me) that gave him enough information to help him rethink his poor choices.
Nonetheless, I apologise in advance to Jaffa if he thinks I'm calling him stupid; he knows I don't think him such. Gullible perhaps (at times) mainly because of the youth of his years, but not stupid.
I apologise to you for the
face, and for the tone of my post which obviously is offensive to you.
Have a great day, and if I may.....
Cheers,
Jo