when I withhold the children from her due to the fear of her new partner she will go after the only thing I own...the property. the kids have already told her they don't want to live with her and that has pissed her off and she has threatened to take her half of the house. Ive have still kept to the verbal parenting agreement (she wont do one in writing) but as soon as this issue comes up and I do stop her seeing them for overnight visits **** will hit the fan and she will do whatever she can to take the house to try to put us on the street so I cant have them. (she has said those exact words when the girls said they don't want to live with her)