I thought I'd ask if anybody else has experienced negativity from their other half (boyfriend/fiance/husband)?
My fiance says I work too much, gets angry with the amount of work I do, gets upset when I cancel our dinner plans sometimes due to work, calls me a nerd because I read a lot of financial and investment forums and textbooks, doesn't share a common interest in investing until recently. He had his funds in a bank savings account earning 0.01% return pa. for about 3 years. I tried to help him (upon reading other posts in this forum, I realise that was bad of me) . But if we marry, will that cause even more arguments and problems with our goals being so different? Most of his friends are similar in habits...they gamble, drink a lot, aren't really motivated and they don't have any investment goals. It gets a bit frustrating sometimes how he doesn't show much interest in these matters that I find rather important for me. I've read that a lot of couples fight over finance, but does this mean that we're not compatible or should I patiently wait for him. He has started to be interested in the sharemarkets, but plunges in without any background despite my advice to sort out a strategy first. He's lost quite a few thousand dollars and is still not interested in analysing why. Right now, I'm at the point where I am wondering whether I am better off alone pursuing my dreams without that nagging, negative influence by myside or will he eventually change if I am patient and take it slow with him. I guess relationships all reach that point where reality crashes in
My fiance says I work too much, gets angry with the amount of work I do, gets upset when I cancel our dinner plans sometimes due to work, calls me a nerd because I read a lot of financial and investment forums and textbooks, doesn't share a common interest in investing until recently. He had his funds in a bank savings account earning 0.01% return pa. for about 3 years. I tried to help him (upon reading other posts in this forum, I realise that was bad of me) . But if we marry, will that cause even more arguments and problems with our goals being so different? Most of his friends are similar in habits...they gamble, drink a lot, aren't really motivated and they don't have any investment goals. It gets a bit frustrating sometimes how he doesn't show much interest in these matters that I find rather important for me. I've read that a lot of couples fight over finance, but does this mean that we're not compatible or should I patiently wait for him. He has started to be interested in the sharemarkets, but plunges in without any background despite my advice to sort out a strategy first. He's lost quite a few thousand dollars and is still not interested in analysing why. Right now, I'm at the point where I am wondering whether I am better off alone pursuing my dreams without that nagging, negative influence by myside or will he eventually change if I am patient and take it slow with him. I guess relationships all reach that point where reality crashes in