Ouchh... here I thought I still have two cycles to go through before I retire
I tried to see how I'm different to China given both of us are 27 and have similar attitude towards 'risk'. I can even understand many of his views because deep down I also worry about those risks as I have 3 kids. To make things worse I spend a lot on necessary items! Then how is it possible for me to be in a slightly better position than him? I think the answer is ‘action’.
I think from Napoleon Hill’s book, you need ‘Desire’, ‘Faith’ and ‘Action’ to succuss anything in life . Probably we both have same amount of ‘Desire’. Even though I don’t want to accept we both have the same ‘Faith’. But I decided to take ‘Action’ which slowly improved my ‘Desire’ and especially ‘Faith’!
Here is another personal example. I joined an organisation 4 years ago just before having our first kid. My manager asked me what sort of training I would like to do. I told them that I’m not interested in any small courses but I want to do masters in this field as I’m new to this field. They laughed and said it is impossible with work and family commitments. There was 'Desire' but no 'faith'. I had to take 'Action' to bring that 'faith' back into the equation.
First I proved myself to the organisation that I'm a worthy employee. Then I managed to find a topic which my organisation is interested in so they are happy for me to do it during work time! To top it I managed to get a gov scholarship to pay for the research masters. I had the ‘Desire’. No one had the ‘faith’ but my ‘Actions’ took care of it!
Great to hear, very inspirational.