Sounds like it's a potentially serious enough problem to warrant a visit to a solicitor to ask for advice on documenting some of this?
Perhaps documentation left with your wills and such?
Haha, yeah, it's in the 'too hard basket' at the moment, as he's got other stuff to sort out first. He's said he'll address it 'later'. Hmmm.....who knows when that is.
I can apply pressure to 'encourage' him to get it done, but then I'm in the dog house (not that we've got a dog, and the cats live inside with us) for 'nagging'. Needless to say, I'll probably have to do that anyway, but if I wait a while, it will look more like a reminder than a 'nag', if you know what I mean.
I would never have included the stupid confirmation name on my license in the first place!