Are you taking the piss Daz?
No. It's too important a subject to muck around with. I joke around alot on the fluffy stuff....but this subject IMO is where the rubber meets the road.....when ya jump off the work merry-go-round, ya better make damn sure the sideshow you have going is going to rough it out no matter what. I have no wish going back to the boss cap in hand saying we didn't quite cut it...and please sir can I have my old job back.
I've seen 4 people so far try this in my industry, and they thought they had enough on the go to get by, but quickly found out the cost of living has gone through the roof, far moreso than the quoted fanciful CPI.
being quite young, still in our 30's.....we've got a few winters to get through yet, so the chestnut cabinet needs to be well stocked.
So for you to be comfortable on LOE.....
Well, that's the thing BB, it's not just me, and it's not just me and the wife....we're talking about the whole crew surfing on this gig, and there's a fairly big crew with some hefty bills coming our way (like 3x5 years worth of private school fees to mention but one).
Of course, that doesn't take into account the largest and most dominant factor, and that's the institution who is prepared to stump up the cash and come along for the ride with you. They also need to feel very comfortable.
Having just gone through the very unpleasant experience for the first time in our lives of having the Bank telling us to sit back and relax, the honeypot is empty and there ain't no more coming your way......and all of the unpleasant choices that onflow from that.....I don't ever want to put myself in that position again.
We both want the fixed - must have - domestic expenses in our lives to be absolutely inconsequential in the scheme of things. If that means working on a pretty decent wicket in a pretty cushy job for another 2 years...well so be it. Until the boss gives me the willy's of course, and then I might review it earlier.