Mr Skater is the youngest of 7 and all of them, without exception, have earnt more from their jobs than we have. They all live in nicer homes as well. While at a recent family gathering Mr Skater let it slip that we had purchased another house & that it had a fair bit of work to do to it. Next thing you know one of his elder brothers is offering to come & help with the painting (at a cost of $30 per hour) since he is temporarily out of work.
What do you say to something like this? I was deeply offended as:
1) I don't work myself & can paint just fine.
2) Mr Skater doesn't earn $30ph in his job and we are one income only.
3) I am sure that is more than a painter would charge, & they would do the job a lot quicker.
While we don't go out and advertise the fact that we own property, the family do know that we have a few. I try not to mention new purchases as I get the feeling that the entire family think that we are very well off, and while that may be the case someday, we are still at the growing stage.
Do other forumites have family & friends trying to do this sort of thing?
What do you say to something like this? I was deeply offended as:
1) I don't work myself & can paint just fine.
2) Mr Skater doesn't earn $30ph in his job and we are one income only.
3) I am sure that is more than a painter would charge, & they would do the job a lot quicker.
While we don't go out and advertise the fact that we own property, the family do know that we have a few. I try not to mention new purchases as I get the feeling that the entire family think that we are very well off, and while that may be the case someday, we are still at the growing stage.
Do other forumites have family & friends trying to do this sort of thing?