Im harsh on myself so harsh on others to... but blunt.
I dont have children (that im aware of) however, I think the football coach approach is best, and will use this on my children when they arrive.
Kid crys in shops I want lolli pop i want lollipop... kicks swears and chucks tantrum... what does parent do? give kid lolli pop to shut him/her up? or disipline the kid?
Most give in and give the kid a lollipop, myself I would say have a good life and leave the child there...
(Id come back after a min of course so i dont loose the kid, but show who is boss)
Because psycologically the child knows all they have to do is be a eyesore to get what they want.
And those traits follow us all throughout our lives.
they are all just habbits, and we all have habbits, good and bad, just need to be careful of what habbits were teaching ourselves and those around us.
I dont have children (that im aware of) however, I think the football coach approach is best, and will use this on my children when they arrive.
Kid crys in shops I want lolli pop i want lollipop... kicks swears and chucks tantrum... what does parent do? give kid lolli pop to shut him/her up? or disipline the kid?
Most give in and give the kid a lollipop, myself I would say have a good life and leave the child there...
(Id come back after a min of course so i dont loose the kid, but show who is boss)
Because psycologically the child knows all they have to do is be a eyesore to get what they want.
And those traits follow us all throughout our lives.
they are all just habbits, and we all have habbits, good and bad, just need to be careful of what habbits were teaching ourselves and those around us.