Okay Harro, let's put the shoe on the other foot.
Supposing one of your daughters was involved in trafficking drugs, she knows the kingpins she's working for and she regularly goes to Bali to party, drink, take drugs and traffic drugs.
One drunken and drug fueled night in Bali, she gets into a catfight with an Indonesian girl, they wrestle fiercely, your daughter pushes this Indonesian girl onto the ground, the Indonesian girl hits her head on the concrete and dies immediately.
Your daughter goes to Kerobokan prison. The capital punishment in Indonesia for killing someone - is death by execution squad, to be shot in the heart. It doesn't matter whether the killing was accidental or premeditated, the law is the law. Death by execution squad.
During her 10 years in prison, your daughter is remorseful, repents and runs a lot of programs for other prisoners, cooking, sewing, computer, art classes, even computer classes and pastoral care for other inmates.
Pretty soon, she will be taken away to be shot. As a father, what would you do, knowing that your daughter has changed in these 10 years. All the lawyers, judges, pastors, governers, prison guards can testify to the good things your daughter has done in prison for other inmates and the wonderful programs she has set up. They all say she shouldn't be shot but be given life imprisonment.
Will you ask the Australian Govt to do anything or will you silently stand by to let your daughter die by execution squad because it is the law in Indonesia and you must abide by the laws in Indonesia? Your daughter did the crime, now she must pay with her life according to the law in Indonesia.
The Indonesian authorities knows that it is drugs that has caused this mayhem and asks your daughter to release the name of the Kingpins she works for. She refuses because she is scared the Kingpins will kill you, her mother and her sister. In the meantime, the Kingpins are causing misery by trafficking drugs to other Australians and their families suffer. Would you consider your daughter selfish in not giving the names of the Kingpins? Would you force/command/compel your daughter to give up the names of the Kingpins? What would you do?