Unfortunately SheWarrior, that's the misconception many young people and their boomer parents share.
Opportunity cost is not understood by such people. When I sat down with my friend the other night, to explain to her my attitude towards her son's decision to do acting, she still couldn't grasp the importance of lost time.
I explained that every day, on average, he was falling $110 behind in wealth purely because he was putting off the opportunity to get into real estate. I explained to her that every day he delayed buying property, that property would cost him $110 more to purchase.
Do the math- 350k house, CG an av 7%pa, paid for in after tax income....
So when kids are planning their 12mth trip OS before they settle down, remind them to add $35,000 to the cost of the trip. (the price an entry level metro house went up)