$50,000 (after tax) for hubby and I just won't cut it. I want to retire with some money to spare, not to stick to a strict budget. I may as well keep working if I'm going to do that!!! Doesn't sound like much of a retirement at all. I want to travel extensively and go out for lunch/dinner whenever I want. Yep I could live on less, but why would I? Isn't that the point of all this investing, to achieve our dreams? not just to live surely??
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Here to just answer that one simple question you posed. It's called reality vs "the dream".
Fully agree that it's wonderful to dream, dream as big as you like, but not everyone is going to end up a Rinehart or a Packer or a Forrest. Most, infact the massive majority, could I be so bold as to venture over 99% of those whom start, are going to have to compromise their dreams and settle for something less as time ticks by.
The big deal didn't quite come off as expected, the rental growth rates weren't consistently chugging up by 5% pa, the capital growth rates didn't consistently keep going up by 8% pa, and so the 'projection spreadsheets' smeared out over 40 years or more get tempered with reality sometimes when the opposing party to the contract you've entered into happens to drive a better deal than you'd bargained for.....be they fellow investors, your Tenants or some savvy purchaser.
There will come a time, perhaps in your 60's, lucky if it's your 50's and onya if it's in your 40's, when you'll have done enough and you'll have the freedom to choose to either ;
(a) quit the job forever and do sort of what you wish when you sort of wish to do it, albeit with a slightly curtailed expense, or
(b) keep butting your head against that job brick wall for another decade or two, doing exactly as the boss demands until you reach your dream.
From experience, I can say that when starting out, option (b) is all the rage, no need to compromise cos uyou are so far off achieving the goal it doesn't really matter....but as you get closer to being financially independent, option (a) really starts to take a hold and the temptation to slice through those shackles becomes an all consuming fixation until the day you do.
Not many people have the 'won't power' and capacity to wield a large enough axe to get through the job shackles, yet patiently sit there and not use it. The temptation to break free is overwhelming after a while. It is intoxicatingly smug to sit there with the capacity to do so, yet hide it from your boss and boss' boss, solely for the purpose of getting to a point where the Banks wouldn't chuck a wobbly when they found out you'd already left the safety of your job's income.
I'm yet to personally meet any very wealthy investors who are quite content to sit in some menial job and cruise along. The only person I've read about is that forklift driver in Jan's 101 stories book.