I'm pretty sure suggestions are spattererd through the forums, but figured I'd start a thread anyway.
A good friend of mine in his late 20s has shared with me their intense dislike of money, and his inability to change this attitude, until spending/saving habits have changed.
However, I'm of the opinion for a person to get a headstart into changing their live-per-paycheck lifestyle/habits, they need to change their attitude to money.
He doesn't like discussing money and hates our materialisitic, consumerism type of society, but he's seeked advice from me on budgeting and getting rid of an accumilated bad debt of $17k debt, so I can see a glimmer of 'hope' (for lake of a better word) of him feeling in control of his situation and managing it, as apposed to sticking his head in the sand and coasting along, getting hassled by debt collectors.
Suggestions on how to assist with someone changing their negative attitude towards money? What tools can I suggest to them to do their own learning?
I know I can't do anything for him, or get him to change his views...although I can feel him reaching out and I don't know which books or ideas to share to assist him... He has the opinion that motivational speakers are posers, but he is a prolific reader so there must be texts which can be useful...
A good friend of mine in his late 20s has shared with me their intense dislike of money, and his inability to change this attitude, until spending/saving habits have changed.
However, I'm of the opinion for a person to get a headstart into changing their live-per-paycheck lifestyle/habits, they need to change their attitude to money.
He doesn't like discussing money and hates our materialisitic, consumerism type of society, but he's seeked advice from me on budgeting and getting rid of an accumilated bad debt of $17k debt, so I can see a glimmer of 'hope' (for lake of a better word) of him feeling in control of his situation and managing it, as apposed to sticking his head in the sand and coasting along, getting hassled by debt collectors.
Suggestions on how to assist with someone changing their negative attitude towards money? What tools can I suggest to them to do their own learning?
I know I can't do anything for him, or get him to change his views...although I can feel him reaching out and I don't know which books or ideas to share to assist him... He has the opinion that motivational speakers are posers, but he is a prolific reader so there must be texts which can be useful...