OK the rundown - I used to work in an office for 4 years with an old friend/work colleague of mine (we are the same age) - he was my sales manager. He wasn't part of my social circle - just work colleagues. We occasionally went out socially with other work mates & the annual Xmas party; hardly "friends".
Now in Jan 2011, he separated from his wife (who I had spent like 1 hour in total talking to over the past 4 years at various points in time). I was still working with him up to Oct 2011. Around mid 2011, I ran into her & got talking & then developed a friendship over the past few months (catching up with each other - purely friendship).
Now, he hates his ex-wife (divorce pending) & around March 2011 started dating his best mate's ex-wife & are now they are boyfriend/girlfriend (another story for another day...)
I have since quit my job at the office with the sales manager & had a falling out with him over some work things.
Now, his ex-wife & I are becoming a bit more than "friends" & I want to date her; however I feel this may be "crossing the line", but on the other hand I feel it's OK for the following reason.
If the sales manager & I were "friends" & he was part of my social circle, then I would say "don't go there, it's a friend & I wouldn't want it happening to me on the other foot", but he's hardly a friend (we had a falling out), so it's OK to proceed.
What do you think?
Now in Jan 2011, he separated from his wife (who I had spent like 1 hour in total talking to over the past 4 years at various points in time). I was still working with him up to Oct 2011. Around mid 2011, I ran into her & got talking & then developed a friendship over the past few months (catching up with each other - purely friendship).
Now, he hates his ex-wife (divorce pending) & around March 2011 started dating his best mate's ex-wife & are now they are boyfriend/girlfriend (another story for another day...)
I have since quit my job at the office with the sales manager & had a falling out with him over some work things.
Now, his ex-wife & I are becoming a bit more than "friends" & I want to date her; however I feel this may be "crossing the line", but on the other hand I feel it's OK for the following reason.
If the sales manager & I were "friends" & he was part of my social circle, then I would say "don't go there, it's a friend & I wouldn't want it happening to me on the other foot", but he's hardly a friend (we had a falling out), so it's OK to proceed.
What do you think?