That's cool Ozperp. Take my hat off to you, despite our different views on other stuff.
Have lived in similar circumstances before and it is only an extremely enriching and warm experience. Plus Vietnamese has surpassed Thai as my favourite food in the universe....
Thank you, WW, for your kind words.
We are very blessed to have an ideal living situation, in my view. It wasn't planned, and
couldn't have been planned as well as it turned out. We have 8 people living in our house, from two very different cultures, and it works exceedingly well for all of us. And it's very easy, we're not all gritting our teeth - it just works. Though it's essential not to sweat the small stuff! If you're obsessive about order and housekeeping, don't try it.
We can provide a home and add-ons (Foxtel, broadband, pool, etc) that our friends couldn't afford living independently, we help with English language and navigating local customs and government departments, and I drive all the kids to/from school (3 schools!). I suffer chronic migraine (ie daily
but very grateful not life-limiting), and our friends are very helpful in caring for the kids when I'm not well. They also help defray our living costs a bit through their rent, and enrich our lives with their love and by sharing their culture with us.
It's not for everybody, and I don't think we could make it work with most of our other friends or family.
But for the 8 of us, it works incredibly well. Every day I'm grateful for our mutually beneficial arrangement.
And the Vietnamese banquet last night was just delicious.
The thing that I particularly love about Vietnamese food is that you never feel that bloated over-full feeling, even if you pig out, because it's so fresh and light. It's divine.