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It's got nothing to do with skin colour, and everything to do with culture and upbringing.
You're the only one in this thread that acknowledges that every generation says the same thing about 'the youth'.
And I keep trying to tell my eldest she needs to learn how to communicate like everyone else or she won't get anywhere in the workplace (I have extreme trouble understanding her - she tends to use 500 words when 3 will do, skirts around questions, doubletalks, changes her answer 4 or 5 times in one conversation, uses double or triple negatives instead of a single positive, basically watch any long-term evasive politician talk about campaign promises and you've got her nailed 100%).
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Quite obviously, I am strange...
Are you kidding me or what ?
Nowadays, it seems that every second kid lives at home until they are 30 or so.
A bit of a generalisation on my part, but I can remember as a kid that very few people lived at home past 20.
I knew a coupla blokes who did, and they were seen as "under-achievers".
Nowadays, it seems that every second kid lives at home until they are 30 or so.
Now, I reckon they are smarter than us - the best deal you can get is to live at home, pay board and have yer parents doin' everything for ya!
I'm positive my two boys will be doing this.
Nowadays it seems you don't know very many people between the ages of 20 and 30.
You wuz lucky !!
I am sad to say that I have now joined the ranks of the employers. My chosen business model (passive commercial Landlord) was specifically chosen because it didn't require any employees and all of the social drama and headaches that come with it that I am not good at pandering to.
We run a business probably the same size as one that employs ~ 200 people, and up until now it's just been me....just the way I like it. I very rarely have arguments with myself.
Four months ago we were forced to employ a cleaner for the shopping centre we just purchased....6 hours a day....what a nightmare. Paid thru the roof (85K pa) and did minimal work, and everything reluctantly. She argued that she did too much and wanted a pay rise to 125K pa. One day I observed her (without her knowing I was there) sitting down at the cafe for over an hour talking with one of the Tenants who refused to pay rent. Nice combo that is. Two ladies bad mouthing you, one sitting in your shop for free and one sitting down doing nothing when she's supposed to be cleaning the mall for you.
I ever so politely, in my usual tactful manner, asked her if she couldn't consider the prospect of getting up and actually commence cleaning like she was paid to do and she said "you can't tell me what to do, I've been flat out the last 30 minutes cleaning up and down the mall." Typical Australian....slack and a liar to cover her tracks. My very first employee / employer relationship didn't end well...she was then given the sack about 5 minutes after that.
We've now hired a few Asian ladies at rates slightly higher than what Centro pay them. Cost is 39K pa for hopefully a far better standard - these ones actually will pick up a mop and know how to drive a broom, and don't think it beneath themselves to scrub toilets.
Long term plan is to sell the property and ultimately get back to a zero employee status....and then carry on and grow from there.
Australian workers - nightmare. Begone the lot of you.
I'm an employer. Not a massive one. Have run 3 businesses over the last 30 years.
I have also been an employee for a number of my adult working years in between, so can see the two differnet mentalities - boss/employee.
One of the things I'm proud of is the length of time my employees stay with me. In all the years; only one has left. Why?
My belief is that I try to make work a nice place to be for them, and try to look after them in little ways.
I watch the "Undercover Boss" show on the teev occasionally, and one thing always seems to come up at the end when they interview the staff after their meeting with the boss; they are blown away by the recognition and feel more "special" as a result. They are happier. Some get offered a better role and are rapt to be considered more important.
Not all people want that however, so I think managers/employees need to find out their employees' motivations. I had one guy who wanted to do more, and wanted to earn more as a result. He was happy to be given more responsibility in return for more pay. So he got that. I have two guys right now who want nothing more than clock punching and no stress. They get that, and no more, but won't earn the big dollars or get ulcers. That's fine too. I leave them be with that mindset.
Most people simply need that to be happy at work; find out how they should get that and give it to them..
So, I use that as a strategy; recognition, take an interest in the staff, be flexible to their needs for family etc, and treat them as you would like to be treated - not be a tool just becuase you are in a position of power and "lord it over" them.
My wife is a nurse. In her industry, there are many nurses who leave the industry. Why? In most cases, the idiot managers are inflexible to the requirements of the (female) staff who are mostly mothers. They simply don't get the hours they need to work and balance their family lives. So, they leave. It's not the money, or the work satisfaction. It's the lack of empathy from the employers. They are just a number; a commodity.
I know plenty....
All the girls I date.
I often think about dating their mum as well. Is that wrong?
At the same time? Cause that's just known as 'awesome'.
I won't kiss and tell...I won't.
yeah man - agree with you delta. i too feel the same way.
why don't you join your parents businesses man? or create something yourself that can grow? besides you already got the creds and have 1st hand corporate world experience
Bang - decision made - you're outta here. I'm not going to argue with cleaners about cleaning.
These are dead true - morale is at an all time low.
How would one turn something like this around?