I have about 2mil investible assets outside PPOR and have never felt wealthy in the least. Still working a*se off.
My PPOR is worth about 700k and this contributes to feelings of working class mediocrity. Maybe when I get to Bayview style PPOR of 1.5mil, no make that 2mil then I may feel more financially secure.
No offense intended - some "hard love" advice - if you will....but I have to say it this way to have the necessary impact you require to (hopefully) listen up....
You are a fool.
Right now I feel the worst I have ever felt financially, living in the best house we have ever owned.
Had I gone back to my $40k per year hospital job and not bought my workshop, I would right now be the happiest bloke on earth - still working in a dead-end job, but own a paid-off really cool PPoR, and no financial worries.
All our friend and relos come over and go; "WOW! Look at this, and look at that view" and so on. It's not really a consolation, I can assure you; when you have no money for yourself after all the bills each month....in the USA they call it "house poor".
The PPoR level is not what makes you wealthy - it's part of it for sure - it's also partly for show to impress the neighbors and friends and make you think you feel better about yourself.
What makes you wealthy is excessive cashflow over and above expenses. Then you feel wealthy - no matter what the level of excess...more is better, obviously.
The person who can resist the temptation to fill up their income with PPoR and car loans, and live very low key, is the wealthy one really because they will have a load of expendable income for the fun stuff - the things we see the really wealthy on tv do and buy....that's what everyone really wants to be able to do to think they are wealthy, right?
Livin' the dream, right?
You already have the paid-off PPoR, loads of savings and well-paid job, so stop being a d*ck and enjoy it.
If you really believe your PPoR is the key to feeling wealthy, then cash out the $2mill of investments/savings and use them to purchase the new PPoR.