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my tips for moving from being a tight wad!!
...we ate lunch and breakfast every day at tescos but star michelin resturants at night. its all about value. we enjoyed both.
Yes, my strategy has changed when someone said we will never be able to hold a $10 million portfolio with no debts being average earners. Imagine how much after tax $ we would need to pay it off.For a large number of years we have been living frugally with the hope that we can retire early, through a mixture of paying down debt along with investing sensibly.
Question to those who have made it:
How did you move away from living a frugal lifestyle to one of being able to comfortably spend money?
We go through an endless cycle of budgeting in order to reduce our debt as much as possible.
We have worked through setting goals, and as we achieve them - "rewarding" ourselves, however it is still a struggle to justify to ourselves that we can comfortably spend the money.
Has anyone else got any ideas
Yes, my strategy has changed when someone said we will never be able to hold a $10 million portfolio with no debts being average earners. Imagine how much after tax $ we would need to pay it off.
So basically it was communicated to me that I need to grow a very large portfolio, perhaps double that and not to pay off the debts.
Instead if bought well, the IPs would maintain themselves, I could live off equity, and the porfolio would keep growing over time.
Two quotes, "An investor should use OPM before their own", and "Debt is only risky if you can't get more debt".
But be aware the strategy illustrates the big picture and depends upon number of factors. So if you like it read the book, "How to achive Wealth for Life...through Property Investing" by Tony Melvin & Ed Chan.
I hope that helps a little to understand more....
As long as you do not spend more than you receive in passive income coming in do not hesitate to spend some.
Hubby also is great in that respect as he reckons portion of hard work should be enjoyed, that's what the wealth building journey is about, just a journey not a destination. So we all need to live along the way.
In the book 'You Were Born Rich' the author summarises it well when he says that we may learn well the art of earning money but have we ever learned how to live the "rich life"?
And:
"...always remember, money is a servant; you
are the master. Be very careful not to reverse that
equation, because many people of high intelligence
have already done so, to their great detriment.
Unfortunately, many of these poor souls loved
money and used people, which violated one of the
most basic laws governing true financial success.
You should always love people and use money,
rather than the reverse!"
Wise words, wouldn't you say?
It's an interesting bit of psychology that when I was young and didn't have any money I always thought that if only I could afford the latest and greatest car, camera etc I would be really happy. Now I am much older, financially comfortable, settled and happy I could afford these things but no longer have any great desire to own them.
In the book 'You Were Born Rich' the author summarises it well when he says that we may learn well the art of earning money but have we ever learned how to live the "rich life"?
And:
"...always remember, money is a servant; you
are the master. Be very careful not to reverse that
equation, because many people of high intelligence
have already done so, to their great detriment.
Unfortunately, many of these poor souls loved
money and used people, which violated one of the
most basic laws governing true financial success.
You should always love people and use money,
rather than the reverse!"
Wise words, wouldn't you say?
I have no problem with someone paying for services.
It is the reason/excuse they use "their time is more valuable"
The fact it annoys me, is my problem..no one elses.
Uncle Bob Proctor
When you are a tight ar5e you end up with cancer from buying cheap crap and your life turning to crap, nothing is reliable because all you buy is cheap rubbish that breaks all the time and you never just enjoy life.
Pfft stuff being a tight ar5e just to be "rich" on paper one day when you're 70! ...I spend liberally, but I earn well, I live well.... But life is too short.
I get annoyed when someone states "their time is worth more than (insert whatever)" when it really means.."I just don't want to do it", and I will pay somone else to do it...and I don't have a problem with that
no undue disparagement intended, this disparagement is entirely earned by the large, embarrassing, flaw in the offered argument quoted aboveI spend liberally, but I earn well, I live well.
Happy to keep working and earning the big bucks while my lifestyle is pretty good.