I'm only starting out. But try to save 20% of what I earn for investments. Eat well...grew up that way and don't like the idea of cutting on food for the sake of investing. This is self care.
I am much more careful with my clothes/shoe shopping though in Australia and from now on intend to only shop overseas. At least when I see some people at work who can't go without shopping, wearing something once or twice and selling it on eBay as well as buying a Mac and selling it on eBay just because they want a newer model. My approach seems odd/cheap to them...but I dress well - just that I don't need to be at the shops every Thursday night. In fact, I just can't stand shopping centers
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The only thing that I think we could cut down is Foxtel, but that's for the family
So don't mind. I've started to take lunch from home after realising I was spending close to $3,000 every year! (That's $15,000 over my 5 year working life!!). It takes a bit of an effort every evening but it saves so much time during the day and is much healthier!
We travel overseas to our native land to see our grandparents often but during Jan me, sis, bro and mum did a first overseas trip to a different country and from now on intend to do that every year or two years. I think if you can afford, it's absolutely worth it. I felt a tad guilty about spending so much, though since Australian holidays are so expensive, might as well go somewhere, where you can shop and holiday together.
Haven't yet thought of paying down the debt...I could be wrong, but it doesn't really worry me at this stage - I'm in my mid 20's. Often it comes to mind that I want to have my cake and eat it to (that's what the saying is I believe)...want to make the most of it all - why not? So we intend to live life on reasonable standards, eat well, invest, travel overseas. We live in a very blessed country called Australia
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We have a 4 year old car that me and my sis bought when I started working in the corporate world. It's paid off. We made the mistake of getting finance when we bought it. But learn't it the hard way. A $15k car ended up costing us more than $20k. But now we have decided, whenever we buy the next car it would be with cash. However, we can't get our head around getting a used car
- but hey by the time we get it - we may be more mature and decide to get something slightly used.
Being a tighta*** is not necessarily a choice but could be a deep rooted belief from the development years. I find sometimes it helps to view all of your childhood and life through a lense of questioning WHY things are certain way? WHAT beliefs do you carry that you choose to be this way? I would make a list of those beliefs "I am a tighta*** because...." It may bring clarity. It's like a part of you is working so so so hard for it and it's not needed. Now is the time to just give yourself the permission to relax - even for just one week - and observe the difference!!! Not sure if this is making sense...but it's something that has worked for me.
Once you are done making that list - ANOTHER thing that has worked for me is RATHER than fighting how you are (in your case being a tighta***)...can you just allow yourself rather than JUDGE yourself for the way you are? Once you really honour who you are, the belief will start to shift.
Have you read The Richest Man in Babylon? It talks about saving 1/10th of your income, using 2/10th to pay debts and 7/10ths for your life....
Last but not the least, I believe that prosperity is a state of mind. It CAN be shifted. But may require some work. It has for me and I'm happy to do the work to change myself within so I can be more and more comfortable in my skin AND "attract" prosperous and happy experiences in my life. The world is a MIRROR of our internal world!
Cheers