i generally let my 6yr old girl have free access to the web ... she has always just looked up her favorite games (or i help her) and she plays away - generally horse games or photographs of horses as she is horse obsessed. i think it is important for her to be techno savvy in this day and age and don't generally have a problem with it.
obviously i monitor by either being in the living room or ducking my head in now and then for a look.
well, this morning i found her hiding in her lounge room cubby watching "you tube" movies of horses (and i'm hoping "not" people) having a good old - er - romp.
when i looked see what search words she put in, they were "funny horses" and the history showed a couple of other sites that showed similar videos (not just you tube). one of the sites had a heading up about 3 people and a horse having sex, but fortunately no video.
because she was hiding, she obviously knew what she was watching was wrong ... when i asked her why she was watching them she clammed right up. i explained to her that it was okay to be curious, but when horses have sex it is a private thing between the horses and that we shouldn't be watching them on the computer - and that the people who video them are silly - but she just continued to glare into the distance.
i thought about banning "you tube" but it does have some good stuff on it from time to time that i am interested in - and it wasn't the only site.
this bringing up kids is hard work.
obviously i monitor by either being in the living room or ducking my head in now and then for a look.
well, this morning i found her hiding in her lounge room cubby watching "you tube" movies of horses (and i'm hoping "not" people) having a good old - er - romp.
when i looked see what search words she put in, they were "funny horses" and the history showed a couple of other sites that showed similar videos (not just you tube). one of the sites had a heading up about 3 people and a horse having sex, but fortunately no video.
because she was hiding, she obviously knew what she was watching was wrong ... when i asked her why she was watching them she clammed right up. i explained to her that it was okay to be curious, but when horses have sex it is a private thing between the horses and that we shouldn't be watching them on the computer - and that the people who video them are silly - but she just continued to glare into the distance.
i thought about banning "you tube" but it does have some good stuff on it from time to time that i am interested in - and it wasn't the only site.
this bringing up kids is hard work.