Hi All,
I have 4 kids, 10yo and down. I'm still looking for the instruction books that came with each one of them
I would say that i'm not really over protective, just a protective father.
What brought me to write this post was my 9yo daughter. We have lived on our current property for 8 months and have befriended a chap, really nice guy, has a partner who has a daughter that visits every couple of weeks, she was there, last sunday. The chap rang us to if our daughter wanted to go over to play, which she has done before and i said fine.
Anyway, i went over a couple of hours later to get her, because we were going out, nobody was at the house, or near the house. So after looking around for 10 mins or so, my mind started to race with ideas, as any parents would. Later, I found out , that the partner had just drop her daughter off, she didn't stay. I thought she was there.
I hae to say, this guy would have to one of the nicest people we have met. So i'm not saying anything against him at all.
But i guess you know my thinking ...................
She has slept over at many a friends place. But we have know these people for years.
Where is the line, over protective, not enough protection?
I know every parent will or has gone thru this stage in their childs life, when to let go.
One thing we haven't done yet, is have the talk with her, she is very bright and understands a lot. By having the talk with her and making sure she understands all about "life", I hope that will help to protect her.
Am i making any sense here?
GG
I have 4 kids, 10yo and down. I'm still looking for the instruction books that came with each one of them
I would say that i'm not really over protective, just a protective father.
What brought me to write this post was my 9yo daughter. We have lived on our current property for 8 months and have befriended a chap, really nice guy, has a partner who has a daughter that visits every couple of weeks, she was there, last sunday. The chap rang us to if our daughter wanted to go over to play, which she has done before and i said fine.
Anyway, i went over a couple of hours later to get her, because we were going out, nobody was at the house, or near the house. So after looking around for 10 mins or so, my mind started to race with ideas, as any parents would. Later, I found out , that the partner had just drop her daughter off, she didn't stay. I thought she was there.
I hae to say, this guy would have to one of the nicest people we have met. So i'm not saying anything against him at all.
But i guess you know my thinking ...................
She has slept over at many a friends place. But we have know these people for years.
Where is the line, over protective, not enough protection?
I know every parent will or has gone thru this stage in their childs life, when to let go.
One thing we haven't done yet, is have the talk with her, she is very bright and understands a lot. By having the talk with her and making sure she understands all about "life", I hope that will help to protect her.
Am i making any sense here?
GG
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