Fantastic thread. Very relevant to my current situation.
Like you alexlee, I’m 28 and started at around the age of 22. I’ve previously lived and worked all around the world (US, Japan, UK, HK) and am currently doing well contracting in my home town of Melbourne (financially anyway – the work environment itself is a tad dry). Whilst I’m not there yet, I’m happy with the way things are going and I should have this ‘problem’ a bit earlier than the average person does.
Once I discovered this issue, it made me examine the rate at which I’m climbing this mountain. I mean, sure, I could go flat out, be financially free at an early age, but then what?
After I finished University I ‘sold my soul to the corporation’ for 4 years. I left that job and was paid out most of my leave. I think I may have taken one or two weeks per year off? Like some others here I too was at the stage where if I had a months leave I wouldn’t know what to do with it. There was a lot of truth in aussierogues post for me, I was (and still probably are) too concerned about what the future holds.
I have a much healthier balance now although I’m still making adjustments to it. My move from permanent employment to contract based was suppose to give me a few months off each year however they just keep getting extended! As young gun mentioned, some of these things I want to do in my life just won’t be the same when I’ll be in my late thirties or forties. Travelling is probably the prime example as others have mentioned.
The quote ‘life is a journey, not a destination’ comes to mind. Right now I’m trying to focus more on the journey.
To answer the threads original question, the things I’d like to do are somewhat similar to others. They include:
- Find my soulmate
- Create and spend time with family
- Travel more
- Invest in my relationships (friends, extended family)
- Improve myself (eat better, read more, learn more)
- Study – lol at ‘interesting stuff’. I’d love to explore some form of visual art (maybe photography) and psychology. Maybe even a career change to teaching? My sister is a primary school teacher and she loves it. I work with a bunch of dorks in IT.
- Become connected with my community more (i.e. something like being involved running an electronic music night or get back in DJing, coach kids basketball or even get back into playing some basketball or ultimate Frisbee).
- And maybe something stupid like working for a month in a bar in a small town in Finland, just for the experience.
- Enjoy more ‘simple pleasures’ (eat lazy weekend breakfasts in nice little café, go to more cultural events)
It’s the first time I’ve written such a list. As I read over it, I’m thinking ‘why can’t I do those things now?!’ as most of these things don’t really require a pile of money.
aussierouge said:
How to enjot retirement?????????? The answer is the same as how to enjoy your current situation!!! And that is to enjoy the now. Get the past and the future into perspective....be fully engrossed in what you are doing whther thats raising your kids, ejoying your grand kids, being involved in your community, anything really.............its a state of mind.
Some wise words...
David.
P.S. If you like Alex, I can be one of your friends! I’ll send you an email in 7 years once I turn 35 and am retired.